Fat experiences

Content Creators are Toxic for the parasocial aspect it sends mixed signals to people who probably don’t know better, but it really isn’t the creators fault but like it isn’t said enough I feel like. But I also think sex work is real work. Big brain.

Big agree.

But also, karma. Know your industry and know the realities of it. Don’t take the job if you can’t handle the paperwork.

Quite possible. But I think there's an element of truth to it. At one point she did lose some weight and then gained it back, which suggests she can't help but gain, which confirms her story.

It confirms nothing, tbh. I'm not saying you're wrong. But people can lose weight for a lot of other reasons too.

Content creation is a very seductive job. It plays into this narrative that if you market yourself well, then you can flourish. You're your own boss, and you can be rich just by being fat and eating food.

Unfortunately, it's not an easy job. Even the most successful content creators bust their asses to get where they've been. Most tend to quit after a few years because of how harsh it is on their bodies. And even then, the majority of these women will not be successful.

So imagine all of this an add not being a feedist on top of things.

As I mentioned before, being a fetish model is seductive to certain fat women. Society largely hates them. So if you tell them that there's a community of men that love their fatness and will give them money because they're fat, they'll be all over it.

Now there are two kinds of women that come to feedist spaces for money without being feedists: businesswomen and divas.

The businesswoman is about her money. She's not here to be your romantic partner, but for the right price she'll sell you custom content or let you stuff her. She might not advertise her services due to TOS, but she won't waste your time stringing you along.

The diva is a deeply insecure woman looking for cash and the validation they never got. These are the ones that say things like "a real feeder always pays" or "no free fat chats". Unlike the business woman who cas a hustler's mindset, the diva has objectified herself into a pretty bauble for men to fawn and fight over. However, her entitled nature drives people away if the horn dogs don't scare her off first.

"But Munchies," you might ask, "What about the scammers?"

Well, a lot of scammers are catfish. Sometimes, they're women, but they are just as likely to be men or even a network of scammers.

Is there any evidence you'd accept that a particular on-line feedee has gained and regrets it?

I don’t buy content so I don’t really get it, of course im a male feedee so its a bit different of a dynamic but that sort of behavior happens with all sorts of female sex workers, it’s just for some reason it’s particularly more toxic with the fat admirer/feedist side idk why.

Your not being very fair she was talking about a specific instance, a particular; and now you’re talking about all feedees.

Yup. If they make a statement that's clearly not playing into a scene where they say explicitly they regret gaining weight.