Fat experiences

Big agree.

But also, karma. Know your industry and know the realities of it. Don’t take the job if you can’t handle the paperwork.

Quite possible. But I think there's an element of truth to it. At one point she did lose some weight and then gained it back, which suggests she can't help but gain, which confirms her story.

It confirms nothing, tbh. I'm not saying you're wrong. But people can lose weight for a lot of other reasons too.

Content creation is a very seductive job. It plays into this narrative that if you market yourself well, then you can flourish. You're your own boss, and you can be rich just by being fat and eating food.

Unfortunately, it's not an easy job. Even the most successful content creators bust their asses to get where they've been. Most tend to quit after a few years because of how harsh it is on their bodies. And even then, the majority of these women will not be successful.

So imagine all of this an add not being a feedist on top of things.

As I mentioned before, being a fetish model is seductive to certain fat women. Society largely hates them. So if you tell them that there's a community of men that love their fatness and will give them money because they're fat, they'll be all over it.

Now there are two kinds of women that come to feedist spaces for money without being feedists: businesswomen and divas.

The businesswoman is about her money. She's not here to be your romantic partner, but for the right price she'll sell you custom content or let you stuff her. She might not advertise her services due to TOS, but she won't waste your time stringing you along.

The diva is a deeply insecure woman looking for cash and the validation they never got. These are the ones that say things like "a real feeder always pays" or "no free fat chats". Unlike the business woman who cas a hustler's mindset, the diva has objectified herself into a pretty bauble for men to fawn and fight over. However, her entitled nature drives people away if the horn dogs don't scare her off first.

"But Munchies," you might ask, "What about the scammers?"

Well, a lot of scammers are catfish. Sometimes, they're women, but they are just as likely to be men or even a network of scammers.

Is there any evidence you'd accept that a particular on-line feedee has gained and regrets it?

Yup. If they make a statement that's clearly not playing into a scene where they say explicitly they regret gaining weight.

Not to be rude, but I am confused by what your point is.

A person who poses for pictures and videos and monetizes that is typically called a model, not a prostitute. HTH. And that’s people of any gender, not just women. Even adult entertainers are not by definition prostitutes. I don’t see anyone on this site offering sex for money. The site would be shut down in a heartbeat if that was the case. You understand what sex is, right?

The longer this post goes on, the clearer it is what the real issue is.

This isn't about fetish commodification. This is about feeling entitled to women and our bodies.

You see a woman, you want her to be your feedee girlfriend/wife. You approach her only to have your dreams dashed] upon the rocky shore of disappointment! Not only does she not want to be in a relationship, but she also wants money to indulge your fetishes! She might not even be into this kink!

Angered at it all, you fantasize about her body being "ruined" as karmic revenge.

You don't care all that much about the commodification of your kink. If you did, you be asking yourself what you can do to make FF more of a community and less of a marketplace.

Agreed! I'd say that content creation is absolutely valid entrepreneurship, and I certainly respect people who are able to make it profitable. I think the danger is when people assume everyone on the site wants to put out content and is somehow not participating appropriately in the community if they are not doing so. As fat people, we don't exist for others' gratification. We exist as whole humans, all by ourselves, with the right to be active here and in any other space we choose in whatever way we choose.