Dating/Friendships

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Butterfly996   United States
Joined 1 year
Can’t speak for anyone else but I know I am, but I totally get the sentiment, it’s pretty lonely when you can only indulge in this stuff by yourself.
8 months

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Casually Walking   Canada
Joined 3 years
I do want to find something real, but everyone so far is only looking for long distance sugar daddies, for lack of a better word

I want to find a proper relationship, with this kink being the cherry on top
8 months

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FatAdmirerLove82   United States
Joined 5 years
Agreed, most people I have found here tend to be just looking for money. Or someone to pay for their food, and not a loving relationship.

Which is a shame, because feeding someone who doesn't care if she gets fat or not is just hot.
8 months

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LoraDayton   United States
Joined 16 years
Tree17:
Is anyone else on here actually looking for something real? I know a lot of people come here to sell content or get off, but does anyone want to find someone to enjoy food with and their growing bellies? It would be nice to find someone to share this lifestyle with.


just like the last profile that complained about this enough to start a thread: you show *no* indication that you are any type of person except those who lurk for content. No pics of you, nothing in your profile, and the ONLY activity are the two threads you posted that are verbatim the same thing.

If you want real connection you have to be REAL person to be seen by others also. And the only way to demonstrate that is to be visible, active, and a part of the community.
8 months

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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Tree17:
Is anyone else on here actually looking for something real? I know a lot of people come here to sell content or get off, but does anyone want to find someone to enjoy food with and their growing bellies? It would be nice to find someone to share this lifestyle with.

LoraDayton:
just like the last profile that complained about this enough to start a thread: you show *no* indication that you are any type of person except those who lurk for content. No pics of you, nothing in your profile, and the ONLY activity are the two threads you posted that are verbatim the same thing.

If you want real connection you have to be REAL person to be seen by others also. And the only way to demonstrate that is to be visible, active, and a part of the community.


I noticed a common theme in this thread.

Everyone who is chiming in about how hard it is to find someone has barely anything in their profile and next to no community participation.

People love those active in the community. It gives them a better understanding of who you are as a person. If you've been on here for five, ten, fifty-leven years and you hardly have any activity on your profile, don't be shocked if it's hard to engage with people.
8 months

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LoraDayton   United States
Joined 16 years
Tree17:
Is anyone else on here actually looking for something real? I know a lot of people come here to sell content or get off, but does anyone want to find someone to enjoy food with and their growing bellies? It would be nice to find someone to share this lifestyle with.

LoraDayton:
just like the last profile that complained about this enough to start a thread: you show *no* indication that you are any type of person except those who lurk for content. No pics of you, nothing in your profile, and the ONLY activity are the two threads you posted that are verbatim the same thing.

If you want real connection you have to be REAL person to be seen by others also. And the only way to demonstrate that is to be visible, active, and a part of the community.

Munchies:
I noticed a common theme in this thread.

Everyone who is chiming in about how hard it is to find someone has barely anything in their profile and next to no community participation.

People love those active in the community. It gives them a better understanding of who you are as a person. If you've been on here for five, ten, fifty-leven years and you hardly have any activity on your profile, don't be shocked if it's hard to engage with people.


exactly.

Tapping the sign again for those who need a literal to-do list:

loradayton.com/2021/05/15/this-is-why-no-one-wants-to-talk-to-you-in-chat-or-pm-or-rather-fill-out-your-fucking-profile/
8 months

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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Edddde:
and then a lot of us are just not gay


Maidenless behavior. Can't even treat your own gender with respect.
8 months

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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Edddde:
and then a lot of us are just not gay

FatFalcon:
Did I mention that you was gay? I so miss the LGBT forum. We have had our space taken from us. I’m just glad that I am contributing something to this community.


I'm sorry, love. Ignore him. He's just mad the world doesn't revolve arounf him judging by his posts.
8 months

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FatAdmirerLove82   United States
Joined 5 years
Tree17:
Is anyone else on here actually looking for something real? I know a lot of people come here to sell content or get off, but does anyone want to find someone to enjoy food with and their growing bellies? It would be nice to find someone to share this lifestyle with.

LoraDayton:
just like the last profile that complained about this enough to start a thread: you show *no* indication that you are any type of person except those who lurk for content. -snip-

Though for some people here, one reason we don't post much is because we view Feederism as more of a fetish and not a requirement for a relationship and have profiles on other sites that aren't focused towards the lifestyle.
Sure would being in a feederism relationship be fun... Oh gods yes, but having it a part of a meaningful relationship that doesn't require it.. Is even HOTTER.
Meaning.. If you are unable to feed them past their limits, they won't abandon you because they love you for you, not for your wallet, and not for your body.
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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Tree17:
Is anyone else on here actually looking for something real? I know a lot of people come here to sell content or get off, but does anyone want to find someone to enjoy food with and their growing bellies? It would be nice to find someone to share this lifestyle with.

LoraDayton:
just like the last profile that complained about this enough to start a thread: you show *no* indication that you are any type of person except those who lurk for content. -snip-

FatAdmirerLove82:
Though for some people here, one reason we don't post much is because we view Feederism as more of a fetish and not a requirement for a relationship and have profiles on other sites that aren't focused towards the lifestyle.
Sure would being in a feederism relationship be fun... Oh gods yes, but having it a part of a meaningful relationship that doesn't require it.. Is even HOTTER.
Meaning.. If you are unable to feed them past their limits, they won't abandon you because they love you for you, not for your wallet, and not for your body.


You are missing the forest for the trees.

The reason why community participation is so important is that it gives people a way to gauge who you are as a person. This is especially true if you are looking for women.

Women are inherently skittish online because there are lots of truly vile people out there looking to use and abuse us. So we look at profiles and community engagement to judge if you are safe to be around. This goes for feedees looking for relationships or something casual.

If you don't have anything - especially if you have been a member for a while - that feedee will play it safe and not want anything to do with you. You might be a decent guy, but it for most women, it isn't worth the risk.
7 months