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being at ease with aging is helpful for one's mental health. the way i think of it, there are pros and cons to it, so i kind of go with it. i'm not sure i look forward to it, but i know it's unavoidable!

but this may be touching on an entirely different kink

i think it may be it's own kink, but there's definitely some lovely overlap. i'm definitely attracted to aging. i truly believe it is a gift to be able to grow old. watching someone grow wiser (and maybe a little wider), noticing smile lines accumulate on the face, a body reaching maturity and continuing to change... that's the good stuff. it's just bonus that weight gain tends to happen alongside aging. it's nice to have a place to chat about it, given the the typical fear of aging and fetishization of youth and skinniness that is pervasive in mainstream culture.

Liking cougars and gilfs is one thing, but fetishizing age progression to the point of health problems is a step too far. Unlike weight gain where you can undo most effects by losing weight if it doesn't suit you, science has only begun to understand age reversal via oxygenation chambers, skin tightening, and hair growth.Why rush to twink death? Unless immortality can be solved with money, value your own youth while you still can.