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About your profile ...

... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee. In a nutshell, if you are seeking a feeder, label yourself as a feedee. If you want to feed someone else, label yourself as a feeder.
11 months

About your profile ...

PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee. In a nutshell, if you are seeking a feeder, label yourself as a feedee. If you want to feed someone else, label yourself as a feeder.


IIRC, when you sign up for an account, feeder is the first option listed under kinks. So, essentially, these people put the least amount of effort in creating their page.

You hate to see it.

This is also why hammering down the community's demographics is so hard.
11 months

About your profile ...

PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee.


keep in mind, this isn't a dating site. how someone shows up in a search is not a concern for a lot of members, because they're not "seeking" another person. we're here for the discussion, the chat (for the chat itself), the stories, etc.

it you want to select potential partners based on a set of filters, try a dayting app like wooplus. it's how my partner found me.
11 months

About your profile ...

PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee.

Canuck:
keep in mind, this isn't a dating site. how someone shows up in a search is not a concern for a lot of members, because they're not "seeking" another person. we're here for the discussion, the chat (for the chat itself), the stories, etc.

it you want to select potential partners based on a set of filters, try a dayting app like wooplus. it's how my partner found me.


I don't think that's what OP is talking about.

There's a specific user flavor on here that I come across a lot. It's not gender-specific, either. These people will put in just enough effort in their profile to fill it out partially, but then, despite being strictly feedees, not take the two seconds to update their kink from feeder (the default) to feedee.

Then, when interacting with others on the site, they get confused as to why others are treating them like a feedee.

There are a couple of reasons for this.

1. Non-native English speakers that mixed feedee and feeder up.

2. Being lazy.

The first group gets a pass, but the second?

Oy very.

Istg, they are annoying. And they always act so entitled too. Like you feeding them is a gift to mankind when you just wanted to make conversation.
11 months

About your profile ...

I wish there were other options, like gainer feedee don’t really fit right at least not for me, I’d feel much better if there was a option for something like BHM or something along those lines

Fat Admirer might work but that seems to be more like active seeking of fat than just being okay with being fat.

I feel like the people who don’t have it right probably aren’t real accounts usually don’t have anything else and are probably picture ripped from other people online. I’ve seen a lot of models pictures on here from profiles that are clearly not that model
11 months

About your profile ...

Morbidly A Beast:
I wish there were other options, like gainer feedee don’t really fit right at least not for me, I’d feel much better if there was a option for something like BHM or something along those lines

Fat Admirer might work but that seems to be more like active seeking of fat than just being okay with being fat.

I feel like the people who don’t have it right probably aren’t real accounts usually don’t have anything else and are probably picture ripped from other people online. I’ve seen a lot of models pictures on here from profiles that are clearly not that model


If you see accounts like that, please report them. It’s super helpful. There are very few people who actually report fake accounts (there are a couple people who are great about it) and it’s hands down the easiest way to identify them. I know I don’t have an encyclopedic knowledge of every web model out there, nobody does, but everyone working together can make a difference.
11 months

About your profile ...

Morbidly A Beast:
I wish there were other options, like gainer feedee don’t really fit right at least not for me, I’d feel much better if there was a option for something like BHM or something along those lines

Fat Admirer might work but that seems to be more like active seeking of fat than just being okay with being fat.

I feel like the people who don’t have it right probably aren’t real accounts usually don’t have anything else and are probably picture ripped from other people online. I’ve seen a lot of models pictures on here from profiles that are clearly not that model

Letters And Numbers:
If you see accounts like that, please report them. It’s super helpful. There are very few people who actually report fake accounts (there are a couple people who are great about it) and it’s hands down the easiest way to identify them. I know I don’t have an encyclopedic knowledge of every web model out there, nobody does, but everyone working together can make a difference.


I do whenever I see it
11 months

About your profile ...

Ditzy:
Just because they mark it as such doesn't mean they are looking for a feeder.
Case in point I'm not looking for anything just come here to converse with old friends.


Ditzy, your profile is clear about who you are and what you want. Yours is an good example of how a profile should be done.
11 months

About your profile ...

PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee.

Canuck:
keep in mind, this isn't a dating site. how someone shows up in a search is not a concern for a lot of members, because they're not "seeking" another person. we're here for the discussion, the chat (for the chat itself), the stories, etc.

it you want to select potential partners based on a set of filters, try a dayting app like wooplus. it's how my partner found me.



It may not be a dating site per se, but many people are using it as that. I see a lot of cases where people are almost begging for a feeder, but listing themselves as a feeder. And these are people who are using to seek a partner.

If you want to use it for just the "fantasy" aspect that's fine, but what harm would it cause you to let other people use it the way they want? Feedism is a niche fetish. As far as I know, there is Fantasyfeeder, Feabie and some groups on Fetlife. That's it. Nada más.

Let's you and I come to an agreement; You don't tell me what to do and I'll extend the same courtesy to you. Thank you.

If I was looking for something vanilla, I wouldn't be here. I am on other dating sites, but I'm not as active on those. I am also seeking in the real world where I currently live. Finding. a feeder is a desire I have, but not a requirement. I seek a connection first. And I realize that finding a feeder might be what I want, but it wouldn't be good for me.

But I digress. Thank you for your free advice; it's worth every penny of that price.
11 months

About your profile ...

PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee.

Canuck:
keep in mind, this isn't a dating site. how someone shows up in a search is not a concern for a lot of members, because they're not "seeking" another person. we're here for the discussion, the chat (for the chat itself), the stories, etc.

it you want to select potential partners based on a set of filters, try a dayting app like wooplus. it's how my partner found me.

Munchies:
I don't think that's what OP is talking about.

There's a specific user flavor on here that I come across a lot. It's not gender-specific, either. These people will put in just enough effort in their profile to fill it out partially, but then, despite being strictly feedees, not take the two seconds to update their kink from feeder (the default) to feedee.

Then, when interacting with others on the site, they get confused as to why others are treating them like a feedee.

There are a couple of reasons for this.

1. Non-native English speakers that mixed feedee and feeder up.

2. Being lazy.

The first group gets a pass, but the second?

Oy very.

Istg, they are annoying. And they always act so entitled too. Like you feeding them is a gift to mankind when you just wanted to make conversation.


Munchies, I am in complete agreement with you. Thank you.
11 months
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