General

PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee. In a nutshell, if you are seeking a feeder, label yourself as a feedee. If you want to feed someone else, label yourself as a feeder.

PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee.

PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee.

Canuck:
keep in mind, this isn't a dating site. how someone shows up in a search is not a concern for a lot of members, because they're not "seeking" another person. we're here for the discussion, the chat (for the chat itself), the stories, etc.

it you want to select potential partners based on a set of filters, try a dayting app like wooplus. it's how my partner found me.

Morbidly A Beast:
I wish there were other options, like gainer feedee don’t really fit right at least not for me, I’d feel much better if there was a option for something like BHM or something along those lines

Fat Admirer might work but that seems to be more like active seeking of fat than just being okay with being fat.

I feel like the people who don’t have it right probably aren’t real accounts usually don’t have anything else and are probably picture ripped from other people online. I’ve seen a lot of models pictures on here from profiles that are clearly not that model

Ditzy:
Just because they mark it as such doesn't mean they are looking for a feeder.
Case in point I'm not looking for anything just come here to converse with old friends.

PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee.

Canuck:
keep in mind, this isn't a dating site. how someone shows up in a search is not a concern for a lot of members, because they're not "seeking" another person. we're here for the discussion, the chat (for the chat itself), the stories, etc.

it you want to select potential partners based on a set of filters, try a dayting app like wooplus. it's how my partner found me.

PearLover:
... I see a lot of people who label themselves as a feeder, but when you read their profile, they describe themselves as a feedee. I don't see how that's going to help them come up in the search results for those seeking a feedee.

Canuck:
keep in mind, this isn't a dating site. how someone shows up in a search is not a concern for a lot of members, because they're not "seeking" another person. we're here for the discussion, the chat (for the chat itself), the stories, etc.

it you want to select potential partners based on a set of filters, try a dayting app like wooplus. it's how my partner found me.

Munchies:
I don't think that's what OP is talking about.

There's a specific user flavor on here that I come across a lot. It's not gender-specific, either. These people will put in just enough effort in their profile to fill it out partially, but then, despite being strictly feedees, not take the two seconds to update their kink from feeder (the default) to feedee.

Then, when interacting with others on the site, they get confused as to why others are treating them like a feedee.

There are a couple of reasons for this.

1. Non-native English speakers that mixed feedee and feeder up.

2. Being lazy.

The first group gets a pass, but the second?

Oy very.

Istg, they are annoying. And they always act so entitled too. Like you feeding them is a gift to mankind when you just wanted to make conversation.

Canuck:
keep in mind, this isn't a dating site. how someone shows up in a search is not a concern for a lot of members, because they're not "seeking" another person. we're here for the discussion, the chat (for the chat itself), the stories, etc.

it you want to select potential partners based on a set of filters, try a dayting app like wooplus. it's how my partner found me.

Munchies:
I don't think that's what OP is talking about.

There's a specific user flavor on here that I come across a lot. It's not gender-specific, either. These people will put in just enough effort in their profile to fill it out partially, but then, despite being strictly feedees, not take the two seconds to update their kink from feeder (the default) to feedee.

Then, when interacting with others on the site, they get confused as to why others are treating them like a feedee.

There are a couple of reasons for this.

1. Non-native English speakers that mixed feedee and feeder up.

2. Being lazy.

The first group gets a pass, but the second?

Oy very.

Istg, they are annoying. And they always act so entitled too. Like you feeding them is a gift to mankind when you just wanted to make conversation.

PearLover:
Munchies, I am in complete agreement with you. Thank you.