Fat experiences

It depends on the setting. If I am discribing someone fat, I usual say big or heavy set. In security work when discibing somone usualy to discrib someone fat we use the term "heavy set" to discribe them.

I call my partner morbidly obese in the bedroom. It makes him horny when I do that.

Outside of that? No. I don't refer to his size my, but when I do, I'll either refer to him as a "big guy" or "extra fluffy." This is because if I am too blunt, other people will take that as disrespecting him or being displeased with how he looks.

Munchies you are a trip !!.
I call my BF my BHM but he gets embarrassed when I do that.
He calls me wide load sometimes and I am used to it.
Never describe him to others as obese just a big guy.

I'm a trip and a half, but I'm a fun trip.

Munchies:
I'm a trip and a half, but I'm a fun trip.[/quote]

My dear you're continuous ROUND trips......nyuknyuknyuk as far as using the word obese.....I will NEVER use it in describing someone.

I definitely describe myself as obese with folks who know I'm happy about it. When it's just us, like during belly play, my fiance calls me "Fatty" and I absolutely love it.

the only time i hear the term "obese" used (to my face) is by my doctor.

my partner just calls me "fatboy." it's a lot less clinical.

I almost NEVER use that word on anyone who just has a bit of fat on them. Sure if one is +500 pounds then sure I’ll make an exception. But for the most part I’m not comfortable with “obese” because it sounds very sinful almost like as if you’re calling someone a failure in life.

So instead I used something like “bigger”, “plus size”, or even “chubby” to describe someone on the round side.

The only time I really use the word obese is when talking about my medical issues. But as far as describing partners or friends. I’d just call them heavy set.

Same here it's a medical context term based on BMI. As fat is a tissue type. I like terms like corpulent, rotund , portly, ect...