Fat experiences

Ditto to the tenth power!

Somewhat by fat but especially by gaining. The two are obviously connected - if you gain your getting fatter. I think its the body transformation that is the real turn on. This is both on others and on myself. What I did not realize what a turn on gaining your self was. I'm amazed about how the feel of new fat and tightening clothes is just so alluring.

100%. When I first started gaining weight. That’s all I thought about

Definitely. I have had a few girlfriends in the past that would inevitably plump up One in particular was quite active. A New city, a new job and soon she and even I began gaining weight. I fantasied about us both becoming bigger.

Me for sure. I enjoy eating lots of food.

I really like before and after photos of once-thin men who became fat. Or the photos of men who were skinny, puny, bairdless little teenagers who have now grown into stocky adults with big bear belly, nice beards and big, thick arms.

I have of course always liked bigger men, but I don't like it if they are too big, and for me it has to be well proportioned. So it depends on what type of fat in men. Anyway, I've always been addicted to fat and gaybears.

Otherwise I don't want to gain any more weight. It's disabling for running and climbing mountains (I like hiking and landscape photos) And socially I'm not ready to be judged by thin people, since I don't have great relationships with others in general.

I might say that I get turned on by gaining or fat.
When I had gained 50 to 100 pounds, and felt myself as a fat person, I no longer felt like an outsider around BBP.

Yes and yes.
When 'out and about' I'm often the fattest person on the scene - a huge turn-on for me. To this end I often wear obscenely short shorts, skin tight T-shirts and open barefoot sandals. Jumping on the scales and seeing I'm heavier again also fills me with a deep sense of achievement. A heavily overweight female (350+ lbs) of any age, clean and with well proportioned fat is to be admired. Same thing for men but for maximum impact they must be short, clean, very fat, and smooth skinned.

Both fat and gaining turns me on. I love grabbing my wife's rolls and belly, but I also love feeling myself getting fatter and get turned on just grabbing my own stomach too.

I have always been attracted to big people since birth. I feel like my brain is just wired that way, I am programmed to like "big" men. But when it comes to weight gain, I have a bit of an ambiguous relationship with it. I like big men, but I don't like them if they are too big or even obese, because when weight gain becomes too extreme, I know it can lead to serious health problems and even physical disabilities. I am more attracted to men who are similar to big rugby players (big but massive and muscular at the same time). I think there must be ways to gain weight in a healthy way without destroying your health and being athletic at the same time. I think I would feel too guilty if I had force-fed a fed and he found out he had serious health problems because of his weight gain and that I had contributed to it. I like feeding fat guys, and I have done it before. But for me, it should remain an occasional act and not something regular that could make him gain too much weight. I am turned on by men who have full bellies, who burp and who massage their bellies, not by gaining extra pounds. I have read very sordid and disturbing comments on grommr, from feedees who had sexual arousal to destroy their health and become handicapped by their obesity to the point of losing their physical autonomy and becoming dependent on others or their feeders, or comments from feeders who had sexual arousal to make the feedees fat, humiliate them and celebrate their first "heart attacks in the hospital" as if it were a birthday. In any case, weight gain is like all things, you have to know how to dose and be moderate I think. But I prefer not to take that risk. Especially for someone.