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Or is it just that you don’t accept trans? After more than a decade where not a single one of you saw fit to talk to me, I wonder.

Personally, I don't speak to people unless they speak to me first.

I don't deny there are transphobes on here. But that falls apart when you consider there are other trans people on here. I've also seen many a thirsty comment from cis people towards people they know are trans.

What has been your experience, if I may?

I get people who randomly message me sometimes, but it’s awful rare and I’m fairly visible on the forums, so people have a chance to run across my profile pretty often. I’ve made really great friends here, but they’re folks I’ve interacted with on the forums talking about hobbies or shared interests, it wasn’t just blind messages. I think Munchies is right, you get back what you give more often than not, and you have to put yourself in situations and places where you can show people who you are before you expect either a blind message or an answer to an unsolicited message. Particularly with the message limit. People aren’t going to spend a message on someone they don’t have a feel for.

Most of the interactions i have on here are in the forums i can count on 1 hand the ammount of 1 on 1s ive had here.

Did you post frequently in any of the forums?
People respond if you join in the discussion.
From what I have seen from comments in forums nobody really is
negative about who is trans.
Makes no difference to me when I chat with someone.

I'd love to talk about anything so long as we can allow the conversation to enter the domain of phylosophy.

(also it occurs to me, from the looks of it, that the first post might have been deleted and we see a comment as the original post? Or am i wrong?)

No, OP's post is still there. They just haven't responded yet. I assume this is because they have a life outside of FF.

Personally, I’d like to talk here just about anything really. You don’t have to be a cute nerdy girl to message me (unless you’re interested in a feeder or RP)

I have tried to connect many times with a great many and been bitten for my troubles.
I’ve been around here for more than a decade and seen things get worse.
Mirroring the general state I have seen far too close up IRL.
No offence, but I didn’t expect a response from anyone-going by experience.
Thanks to all of you who.

Yeah, there's a lot of shitty people on here. But it is possible to make friends. It's a game of quality over quantity.

That said, sometimes you have to be patient. I went through a period of life with no friends. Looking back, this was because of my environment and that I wasn't in a good headspace to be anyone's friend. Once I dealt with my headspace, I was able to find 1 person to befriend. This person later became my best friend. And once I got into a better environment, I found a lot more.