MRFATS53:
Wow - how exciting for you! Considering your weight gain the boyfriend clearly still finds you attractive (and why not?). I'd be betting that he'd support you in your weight gain ambitions.
FatGirlWithALeanBoyfriend:
I am 95% confident that my boyfriend has romantic feelings for me. But being finding me attractive and to what expect is a puzzle. He seemed to try so hard to not hurt my feelings. He says PC cliches like "you're not fat you're beautiful," and "you have curves." I think he thinks I'm depressed or have some other mental issues.
MRFATS53:
I think his positive comments are understandable because he does not realise that you want to be fat and fatter still. Think you'll have to gently let him in on your secret - which could just be more powerful than your feelings for him. Could you be happy not being fat?
FatGirlWithALeanBoyfriend:
I told him and I wasn't gentle. He prefers to get a fast-paced info dump because telling him news slowly makes him feel like he's going to get the worst possible.
The talk went reasonably well. He said he still likes and he still wants to be with me. I did admit that he was far far far more physically attracted to me the way I was in 2019 but he says he is still physically attracted to me and that he thinks he will still be physically attracted to me when I reach 400 lb. He said he is not sure how he feels about a lot of what I told him. But we did have sex after the talk so that's a good sign.
Yes, well done, it does sound like a good sign so go for it! You never know but if/when you get to 400 lbs you may really like it and with him used to a nice big partner you might want to go higher!! Exciting prospect...
