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Ideas for incorporating erotic weight gain and feeding into your relationship

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Perhaps she finds it all a bit "bleh" and as a result doesn't want to have a conversation which could lead to some sort of quid pro quo arrangement.

Have you tried discussing that with her?

1 year

Ideas for incorporating erotic weight gain and feeding into your relationship

Joined 4 years

Justinboo0313:
I’ve asked her what she likes, or fantasies she has. And she says she has none. So it leaves me feeling like I have nothing to offer her back. But I would do anything she asked for. Just to make her happy and fulfilled sexually. I try to repress my kink for her but that’s extremely difficult. I’m willing to compromise on anything.

She might be vanilla.

Question. How are you hoping to experience this fetish with her?

1 year

Ideas for incorporating erotic weight gain and feeding into your relationship

Joined 4 years

Justinboo0313:
Foreplay and role play mostly. But with the occasional over indulgence if possible. I just want to share it together. She seems to not even want to try at all. I’m would be willing to do anything for her to feel sexual satisfied.

Is she saying she isn't sexually satisfied?

1 year

Ideas for incorporating erotic weight gain and feeding into your relationship

Joined 4 years

Justinboo0313:
I believe she is. She just doesn’t understand the kink no matter how I explain it to her. She has know about it since the beginning of our relationship. She has gave it a try a few times. I’ve told asked her a lot about what I could do to help her enjoy herself more while still satisfying my side. I want to compromise and give her whatever she needs. But can’t get anything from here on how she feels sexually.

What do you need sexually?

1 year

Ideas for incorporating erotic weight gain and feeding into your relationship

Joined 4 years

Justinboo0313:
Well she’s not into feeder/feedee stuff. So I try to get some role play or dirty talk or even wearing smaller clothing to set a mood. The older I’ve got the harder it is to finish without some feedism play.

What is she comfortable doing? I can't see someone who isn't into feedism being comfortable with some of the things you are suggesting.

Is she fine with you engaging in your kink outside of her? I don't mean finding a mistress, but there are other things you can do.

I have a much higher libido than my partner as well as having kinks he isn't interested in. I channel this in a lot of ways. I play fetish games, watch porn, fantasize about things during my me time, and write erotica.

1 year

Ideas for incorporating erotic weight gain and feeding into your relationship

Joined 4 years

Justinboo0313:
I don’t know. She won’t really tell me. I love her and have even tried to suppress it but it usually just comes back even stronger. She doesn’t like the thought of me looking at porn. And a lot of people on her want something more than just some playful role play. And some just want you damn money.But what kinda of games?

Try asking her this:

What am I doing that you like? What do you wish I did more often? What's something you wish I'd stop doing?

Start with the basics, and you can expand the conversation from there. It sounds like she feels put on the spot. I'm not saying you are doing this on purpose, but she seems shy about this topic. Focus on intimacy rather than pleasure and go from there. She sounds like the sort of person who values the emotional connection more than being adventurous.

As for the games, it depends. Not going to make any recommendations, but you can check out DeviantArt and Itchio.

1 year