Justinboo0313:
I don’t know. She won’t really tell me. I love her and have even tried to suppress it but it usually just comes back even stronger. She doesn’t like the thought of me looking at porn. And a lot of people on her want something more than just some playful role play. And some just want you damn money.But what kinda of games?
Try asking her this:
What am I doing that you like? What do you wish I did more often? What's something you wish I'd stop doing?
Start with the basics, and you can expand the conversation from there. It sounds like she feels put on the spot. I'm not saying you are doing this on purpose, but she seems shy about this topic. Focus on intimacy rather than pleasure and go from there. She sounds like the sort of person who values the emotional connection more than being adventurous.
As for the games, it depends. Not going to make any recommendations, but you can check out DeviantArt and Itchio.