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Prey987654:
I love IT. Being havier than my husband or other men in my life.

My husband is round about 100 lbs lighter than me an it's a turn on, that he dominante me if he want , although he is lighter.

Sureley the mainstream prefers small, skinny girls , but in real life there are a lot of men, that love bigger woman.
My husband says , a woman has to be soft, chubby, warm and an a litle bitt weak ( by can't say no to sweets for examble, or with lower muscles) outside and in her soul.
A man has to be strong and hard outside and he hast to have INSIDE the talent to controll a woman, without her recocnizing it, independent from his size.
How weak is a thin or normal man, that can't stay behind his fat woman because of the mainstream opinion. Many stupid people think , fat girls only have to date fat men or fat men only have to date fat woman. But I think , these guys often have a relationship without deepness.
When the mainstream is aloud to tell you, WHO you have to love, you are lost!

Canuck:
i am another fan of contrast. when i was fit and thin, i loved feeding my partners and seeing them grow soft. my last partner at a fit man was a ssbbw who was almost 3-times my size when we met - that contrast was amazing!

now as a fat guy, i am enjoying contrast from the other side - i am more than twice the size of my current partner.

being the "bigger one" in a pairing wasn't ever a goal or desire of mine, but i will say that when it happened i've really grown (pun intended) to love it.