for me, health issues and immobility are not the goal, and those ideas are not the thing that arouse me.
i've gained more than i ever expected or tried to. for a long time my health was fine, which i chalked up to my first 40 years of being in shape and eating well. more recently, i've started to have some warning signs about potential health issues, so it seems my lucky streak was coming to and end.
i've made some changes to my diet, and tried (and mostly failed) to get more active to try to maintain my health without having to change my lifestyle too much... i've cut out drinking, which should help.
but one of the things about becoming a feedee, the draw of eating and overindulging, of being stuffed, is so enticing that it's hard to resist! i am supposed to cut out carbs/sugars, but the feeling of being so stuffed after eating a whole pizza (or more) is just hard to resist!
also, to me, while immobility would be a frightening position to find myself in, less drastic difficulties are very, very hot - having to stop or sit down, while my partner teases me...
when my belly presses into the table and prevents me from reaching something...
when i can't lift myself up from a chair...
when i can't reach a shelf because my belly is pressing into a counter...
the limitations to my range of motion and my flexibility, which allow my partner to dominate me physically...
even the limitation in having sex have been something that is really hot!
but if i couldn't get myself to the bathroom when i needed to go, that would be a problem, i think. the fantasy of being "trapped" is better than the reality, i think.
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