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Munchies   United States
Joined 4 years
Bbwchaser21:
Hi people

Seems there is a lot of emphasis on sending gifts whether explicitly asking or alluded to after a small amount of chat, does anyone partake in this and does it satisfy anyone?

Just curious really, I see the thread about it at the top of the forum that's locked advising against it


I am once again asking people not to give money to internet strangers. And on the flip side, do not accept money from internet strangers.

Never ends well.

If someone you don't know demands or suggests money out of you, there's a high chance that this person is a scammer or a user.

If someone you don't know offers you money, there's a high chance they are trying to buy power over you.

Now, if you are a sex worker or other kind of content creator, I'm not talking about you. That's a business thing that both parties have consented to. I'm talking about the regular-degular crowd. Take the time to get to know each other first for at least a few months. Once you can trust each other, then do gifts.

I'm dating my current feedee. He was my feedee before we started dating. He paid for his own food initially before I decided I could trust him and pay for his food and sometimes get him other things.
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Morbidly A Beast   United States
Joined 3 years
Bbwchaser21:
Should there be list of known users that do this? Just asking really, seems it's so common


No because that would just incentivize beggars to that list. Stick to content creators if you’re gonna do anything like that. The general public can’t handle it
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Munchies   United States
Joined 4 years
Bbwchaser21:
Not sure why that would be a problem, if the member is on the list you know what's expected if you chat or if they are not on there it might dissuade them from asking for money as mods could add them with chat evidence


What good would that do? A determined enough person can easily pretend to be someone else. The list would only be useful for the truly stupid. On top of all that, a lot of men will label women who reject their advances as scammers, so that would render the whole thing useless.

Just screenshot and send a report to admin.
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Morbidly A Beast   United States
Joined 3 years
I don’t understand the angle here at all, like it would be nice to have someone pay for my food and stuff; I can easily spend 500-600 dollars just on food in 1 weekend just on food but I don’t understand the wanting to pay for it, like I don’t even wanna pay for my own food and food brings me joy, I don’t understand wanting to pay for someone else is that like financial fem dom stuff or something. I might be a pig but I’m not a pay pig
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Enas   Greece
Joined 4 years
Bbwchaser21:
Should there be list of known users that do this? Just asking really, seems it's so common


That would require too much maintenance, people would just make new accounts to evade it.
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Munchies   United States
Joined 4 years
Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t understand the angle here at all, like it would be nice to have someone pay for my food and stuff; I can easily spend 500-600 dollars just on food in 1 weekend just on food but I don’t understand the wanting to pay for it, like I don’t even wanna pay for my own food and food brings me joy, I don’t understand wanting to pay for someone else is that like financial fem dom stuff or something. I might be a pig but I’m not a pay pig


There's multiple reasons.

For example, practicality. Fattening up is expensive. So if a feeder wants to fatten a feedee, it makes sense to provide the food in whole or in part. This is especially true if a feeder wants the feedee to eat something or somewhere specific.

Other feeders like being directly responsible for the feedee's weight gain. If they can cook and/or hand feed the feedee themselves, paying for the food is the next best thing.

In my case, I buy my partner food because I love spoiling him. He never asks me for anything, so it's all the sweeter when I surprise him with something that he enjoys.

Gotta remember that not everyone enjoys the same things you do and vice versa.
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Morbidly A Beast   United States
Joined 3 years
So it’s feeding vicariously gotcha that makes sense!

I feel like if I were to eat on someone else’s dime I’d hold back just out of principle lol
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Letters And Numbers   United States
Joined 2 years
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Bbwchaser21:
Hi people

Seems there is a lot of emphasis on sending gifts whether explicitly asking or alluded to after a small amount of chat, does anyone partake in this and does it satisfy anyone?

Just curious really, I see the thread about it at the top of the forum that's locked advising against it


If you encounter someone who you feel is a scammer, flag them. You can do this through their profile. The volunteers who assist on this site ban the profiles of scammers every day, but getting tips always makes it easier.

On top of that, and like others have said, be smart online. Don’t give money to strangers. If someone is being aggressive and it feels like they’re not on the level, trust your instincts. If someone claiming to be a 23 year old American woman also claims to be into blues music and luxury brands that 60 year old rich men like and getting fat JUST FOR YOU, they’re probably not who they say they are. If someone has pics posted and are asking you for money, do a reverse image search. If the pics are taken from Tumblr or onlyfans or Instagram, report them. If someone has a kik account in their profile, raise an eyebrow. If someone has a Kik and a Signal and a telegram, they’re a scam artist. Don’t give money to strangers.

And absolutely do not take it personally if a scammer seems to be only interested in your money, just report them and block them. It’s not you, it’s the world we live in.
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Munchies   United States
Joined 4 years
Bbwchaser21:
Hi people

Seems there is a lot of emphasis on sending gifts whether explicitly asking or alluded to after a small amount of chat, does anyone partake in this and does it satisfy anyone?

Just curious really, I see the thread about it at the top of the forum that's locked advising against it

Letters And Numbers:
If you encounter someone who you feel is a scammer, flag them. You can do this through their profile. The volunteers who assist on this site ban the profiles of scammers every day, but getting tips always makes it easier.

On top of that, and like others have said, be smart online. Don’t give money to strangers. If someone is being aggressive and it feels like they’re not on the level, trust your instincts. If someone claiming to be a 23 year old American woman also claims to be into blues music and luxury brands that 60 year old rich men like and getting fat JUST FOR YOU, they’re probably not who they say they are. If someone has pics posted and are asking you for money, do a reverse image search. If the pics are taken from Tumblr or onlyfans or Instagram, report them. If someone has a kik account in their profile, raise an eyebrow. If someone has a Kik and a Signal and a telegram, they’re a scam artist. Don’t give money to strangers.

And absolutely do not take it personally if a scammer seems to be only interested in your money, just report them and block them. It’s not you, it’s the world we live in.


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Biggerthebetter   United States
Joined 18 years
Ive had approximately 90% of the females I chatted with here on FF ask me to send them money for food.

Once I sent money via pay pal to o girl here on FF. Needless to say I never heard from her again.

Learned my lesson after that!

My advice is save your money and use it to buy yourself a tasty snack
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