Submission and domination

Ff user who ruins people?

Piggy Teaser:
Whatever is making you feel powerless in your life, that you need to attack strangers on the internet and try to present yourself as morally superior to them, as well as using infantilising language to belittle them, I really hope it gets better and that you work it all out xx

Munchies:
I'm fine sweetheart. Are you?

Nah, I'm talking about a situation I've seen time and time again on FF, Dimensions, and other kink spaces. People, men and women, who say they get off on ruining people's lives really do mean it.

I've seen people brag about how they systematically isolated their feedees as they made them fat. Telling them that no one but them would want them but them. Destroying their support network until the feeder is literally the only person in their lives.

Then they make it so their feedee literally cannot survive without them. They convince them to quit their jobs and focus on getting fat. Sometimes they ruin their health so much they literally need the feeder for all their needs. Often it's both.

Once all that happens, many feeders will bounce straight up once they grow bored. I'll never forget that one guy who proudly boasted that they abandoned their feedee in a nursing home because they got so fat it wasn't fun anymore.

So, would you like to try again?

Piggy Teaser:
Projecting much?

Munchies:
I don't think I am.

If I was wildly off base about your character, you'd insisting that you'd never do something like this. That you care too much about your feedees to ever do something like this.

Instead, you keep trying to turn it around back on me.

Bless your heart.

Piggy Teaser:
Very condescending and dealing in total absolutes. Also "if you x, then you would y" is completely logic of your own invention, it's not some universal law. You're creating rules for a game that I have no interest in playing.
This is sub thread about ruining, on a forum about submission and domination. It goes dark places, mate.
What you wrote out and described would be erotica for many people, on both sides of the coin.
Nobody is making you be here, reading this stuff. I suggest you find something else to read, because it clearly upsets you.
What I wrote clearly triggered you and that's ok, you're allowed to feel how you feel and your experiences are perfectly valid.
But your feelings have nothing to do with me.
You've said what you want to say, you've allowed my words to confirm your assumptions about my character feel free to consider this a win and enjoy your dopamine xx


This is actually a thread about a user looking for ruination erotica, but you do you, boo.

1 year

Ff user who ruins people?

Piggy Teaser:
Very condescending and dealing in total absolutes. Also "if you x, then you would y" is completely logic of your own invention, it's not some universal law. You're creating rules for a game that I have no interest in playing.
This is sub thread about ruining, on a forum about submission and domination. It goes dark places, mate.
What you wrote out and described would be erotica for many people, on both sides of the coin.
Nobody is making you be here, reading this stuff. I suggest you find something else to read, because it clearly upsets you.
What I wrote clearly triggered you and that's ok, you're allowed to feel how you feel and your experiences are perfectly valid.
But your feelings have nothing to do with me.
You've said what you want to say, you've allowed my words to confirm your assumptions about my character feel free to consider this a win and enjoy your dopamine xx



People like you belong in jail
1 year

Ff user who ruins people?

I have a question for what I like to call “Ruinists” if ruining people is your thing why don’t you ruin your own life? It’s a win win you don’t get to spread your evil and you get ruined.
1 year

Ff user who ruins people?

Geez. Welcome to Fantasy Feeder, a safe space online to express your feedist fantasies.
1 year

Ff user who ruins people?

Boops Boops:
Geez. Welcome to Fantasy Feeder, a safe space online to express your feedist fantasies.


Someone didn't read
1 year

Ff user who ruins people?

It's like you come on here just to be angry with people. Take a break. I will not entertain your moral outrage.
1 year

Ff user who ruins people?

Boops Boops:
It's like you come on here just to be angry with people. Take a break. I will not entertain your moral outrage.




Someone doesn't know me as well as he thinks he does.

Bless your heart, darling.
1 year

Ff user who ruins people?

Boops Boops:
It's like you come on here just to be angry with people. Take a break. I will not entertain your moral outrage.


There’s valid expressions of a fetish, mostly in the realm of fantasy and then there’s just out right fatphobic bigots.

Theres people who do sa scenes between two consensual people, which is clearly in the realm of fantasy. But there’s a fine line between that and literal sa.

The people who fetishize ruination of total non-consenting fat people are blurring the lines.
1 year

Ff user who ruins people?

Boops Boops:
It's like you come on here just to be angry with people. Take a break. I will not entertain your moral outrage.

Morbidly A Beast:
There’s valid expressions of a fetish, mostly in the realm of fantasy and then there’s just out right fatphobic bigots.

Theres people who do sa scenes between two consensual people, which is clearly in the realm of fantasy. But there’s a fine line between that and literal sa.

The people who fetishize ruination of total non-consenting fat people are blurring the lines.


This is true. I mean, I'm a sadist. I get off on torturing my partner and making him suffer. Hell, I've had partners with ruination kinks. Like I said before, there's a way to indulge in kink while keeping it safe, sane, and consensual.
1 year

Ff user who ruins people?

MitchHedberg:
A while back I read some posts from a user on here who confessed to "ruining men" by getting them addicted to the fattening lifestyle so much that it they become essentially useless and lose their partners,jobs, etc.

It was very dark but also quite a hot read and I'm wondering if anyone knows who that user was or where I can find those posts?


Back to the original post.

Has anyone found these posts? I’d love to read them.
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