Fat experiences

For me being fat is the fetish so yes?

But what the fetish is to other people might not be case

Depends. Some people are stuffers and bloaters, so they aren't trying to be fat necessarily. Some people are foodies and feel ambivalent about gaining weight.

Non-gaining feedees are also a thing.

I'd say if you're in the fence give it a shot. I thought I was more of a feeder/fat admirer when I first got into this fetish but I started gaining weight on my own and I turned into a full on feedee. If you gain a few lbs and decide it's not for you, then no harm no foul. Its not that hard to loose that little of weight. But if you decide you like it then you may actually be a feedee in hiding or a mutual gainer

For me it’s very erotic. I’m gay and have liked fat men (read fantasized sex and masturbation material) for the longest time. I actually feel sexy being fat.

That's a simple question with complex possible answers.

1l As a gainer yes the bigger I am the bigger I want to be.

2) As foodie not so much being bigger does not alter that love of good tasting food.

3) Fat admirer, no if I am 200 or 1000 lbs I would still like to see how fat other are and where on them. But as I grow it takes a bigger person than me to go wow. So somewhat.

As someone who is a formally fit fat admirer gaining has enhanced the fetish. Fat people have always turned me on but now I’m the fat one. It’s fun getting turned on by my own gluttony and gains. It gives me more outlets for the fetish.

Everyone is different, but for me, absolutely. I like the sensation of having a totally obese body, being able to rub and slap my fat belly, and feeling my sides swell outward when I sit. I feel much more sensual at this weight than three hundred pounds ago.

I love this and really want to find like minded people to talk to and share the journey, really getting my head in the game.

Uh yeah, it’s crazy. The fatter I get, the fatter I want to keep getting. I’m like that neuron activation meme every time I notice a part of me jiggling.

i've been in the community for a long time, and for most of that time (decades) i was thin and a fat admirer and feeder. in the last several years i've gained weight and embraced life as a foodie and occasionally a feedee.

i think getting fat opened up new experiences within the space of this fetish - i think the most significant is how i went from being more of a dom to a sub. it's been a different experience, for sure.

on the other hand, i don't think it's any better or worse than my experience back when i was a dominant feeder with larger partners.

i think it has more to do with who you are, and who you are with, and the dynamic it creates around you both.

gorging yourself with delicious, decadent food is way, way more fun than working out at the gym though, so i highly recommend trying it.