Submission and domination

Hi! Sadistic domme feeder here. Probably the one you heard that term from since I'm the most visible one out here.

I've had several playmates and 3 dedicated feedees. Since I tailor the experience based on the person, the specifics can vary. I've done in force feeding, humiliation, ruination, degradation, pleasure denial, praise denial, and more. That said, the consistent theme is that I am in control of their pleasure and their pain.

For example, my favorite thing I've ever done is make my partner earn his stuffings. I'd only stuff him on the weekends. How many days and the intensity of our sessions depended on how many steps he took during the week days. It was a sexy, practical solution to keep him mobile since he was a very lazy 470 lbs at the time.

He hated it, but at the same time, he loved how I'd reward him with a stretched out belly and ... other things ~

Meanwhile, I got to enjoy making him suffer for his own good paired with pushing him to his absolute limits as I fed him over 10 k calories a day on the weekend. The way he'd ask me so sweetly to make an exception just the one time only for me to smile in his face and tell him no was delicious.

But the way he looked blissed out as he slipped into a food coma post an all day stuffing with an aching belly was ever more delicious.

I'd like to think we are seeing as he's the only feedee I've ever had that I brought home to meet the fam.

And yes, there can be a psychological aspect of it all. In fact, all D/S relationships have a psychological aspect. How much depends on the relationship and situation.