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Hey all, I just had to express a weird quirk I've always had with the hope that others may be able to relate to and/or have some answers for. I've been into feederism, weight gain, fat in general all my life, but I feel disgusted by NSFW and pornography, and have no desire whatsoever for sex or anything related. Does that make me asexual? I feel like it doesn't because I'm still attracted to the fetish, but I don't know what I'd call that... It'd just be nice to know if I'm not alone in that regard.
Thanks ^^

This is so relatable!! I feel pretty much the same as you, I have pretty much no sexual interests outside of this fetish (and even within this fetish I enjoy feedism in nonsexual aspects if that makes sense). That being said I identify as being on the asexual spectrum since being asexual means different things for different people. No two asexual people are the same, if you feel like the label fits you then I think you would totally fit under the umbrella of asexuality :]

ah alright, thank you very much ^^ i didnt wanna label myself as asexual and end up misleading someone or something, i appreciate it!

I feel the same way!! It feels right to call it asexuality, but at the same time I don't want it to seem as if I don't get aroused at all. I do, just not for NSFW...

I think it's something a lot of members of this community have in common. Not everyone for sure but I definitely relate to this. I'm very attracted to the idea of fatness and seeing and experiencing fat visually and physically.. and while for me sexual gratification and touch goes along with with it, like I enjoy having sex and all that, when it actually comes time to get down to it actually doing anything its more like a chore even if it is nice and feels good and im really into it.
For example, I'm not a big fan of touching pussy and I don't really like it at all but I'll do it because I want my partner to feel good, at which point im more attracted/turned on by her reactions and her movement than by the fact that im touching her down there... Actually putting 'it' in is different though because it's intimate enough that I can ignore what I dislike about it.
And it's awkward saying all that while knowing I'm without a doubt straight and only into women (all, not just bbw/ssbbw). It's a weird thing which I recognize. I don't know if it's similar to what others feel and experience or not but it's somewhat true for me.

I feel the same way. I've even tried to include past partners but I didn't like it.

Ace people are in pretty much every kink and fetish. And what is kink if not a niche adult hobby?

I mean, at the end of the day, feedism is about eating a lot of food and maybe getting fat. If that's not aro/ace friendly, idk what is.

Completely agree. The kink is highly individualized anyway. For some people, it's about fat, other people enjoy the gain more than fat itself, and others love the actual act of stuffing. For me it's all three. The point is, the kink is so highly individualized, people will engage with it in very different ways. And it doesn't have to be sexual by any means.

What is a fetish?

This thread is reopened. There was a lot of off-topic sniping, slapfighting, and bickering that I deleted. Re-opening the thread is not an invitation to re-start that conversation. If you were part of the slap fight, just walk away so the thread can get back to the original topic. Make your own thread on that topic if you want.