Submission and domination

This seems like a rather fun topic to spend some time on! Let's face it, most of us spend long enough daydreaming about it 😆

This could be fantasy, or in real life.

My feeder should be male, physically strong, ideally dark hair.
He should be dominant enough to tame me, but kind enough to love me.
He should enjoy tormenting me with my own senses.
He would train me and mould me into his perfect, fat, glutton.
He would manipulate my natural desire to please a dominant personality by making his high expectations clear.
He would enjoy weighing me, measuring my growth, and showing off his hard work.
He would enjoy watching me grow and feed myself into total oblivion.
He would be turned on by gluttony, by submission, and by physically dominating his fat, growing pig.
He would reward me well by fucking my brains out after every week of impressive growth, or stuffing that left me comatose.
He would edge me into desperation every time even the smell of food entered the area.

Oh its fun to daydream!! 🤤

I hope you find the feeder of your dreams

Here’s my fantasy:
I’m 5’7” and a male feeder.
I may be physically weaker than average and a nerd, but I’m definitely someone dominant. I of course have a big heart, even with my frequent mood swings (do not worry, I never take out my frustration on others), I’d take out my girlfriend for dinner wherever she wants, wether on a nice Chinese all-you-can-eat restaurant, A pizzeria, McDonald’s or even just takeout, I’d be by her side, seeming soft in public, but becoming the man in charge in bed. I would love roleplaying, cosplaying with my girl and giving her the leftovers of what I can’t manage to eat or don’t feel like eating.
Now, this is just a vague summary of my fantasy, so feel free to voice your opinion on it.

I've already found my sweetheart, but if I had to determine everything about my ideal feedee:

-They could be a man or a woman, ideally with floofy hair that's as soft and fun to play with as the rest of them
-They would submit to me, but less in the "I'm the boss of them" way and more in the "they trust me with everything" way. They'd try any food I put in front of them knowing if they turned out not liking it I'd put it up and get them something they'll like better
-They'd be intelligent and have a nerdy sit-down hobby like gaming, chess, or DnD
-Whenever I felt like getting it on I could get them in the mood by bringing them a snack or fondling their fat
-They'd get turned on out of their mind by me keeping track of their weight, measurements, calorie requirements, etc

Oh my God .... Heaven! 💖

I've had a lot of time to think about this and since coming to this site I've learned alot about myself and what I want. Maybe more so what I need.
I am definitely a submissive. I've dated a dominant man who introduced me to submission and it was great until he decided I gained too much weight. I'd like to think that's his loss but I like the idea of having a dominant who enjoys my fatness and may even want me fatter.
I do not want force feeding or being shamed for my size. I can submit and serve a dominant who treasures every pound of me and is creative and playful with how he/she enjoys my fattiness.
I want my ideal dom to think of me as a pet. This means I can be whatever my dom wants me to be. I find the idea of ownership really hot. I would love my dom to deceptively fatten me to whatever desired size, U want my dom and I to mae our fantasies come true for each other.
I like teasing but I don't like the idea of being humiliated. I know that objectification is a form of humiliation but if it is accompanied by affection and appreciation.
I respond very well to praise. LOL
I am a full-service sub, and I am very obedient. I am easily trained. But I know what I like. The more I'm turned on the more submissive I get.
Finally, I am open to being owned by either a male or female dominant. I've learned that the idea of a smaller, thinner female owning and controlling me is extremely hot. For some reason I love the contrast between me and my mistress.
I'm not sure if that makes it more clear or more compliated.

I'm not sure if as a result of my recent post here or maybe because of my profile that someone on this website thought it was appropriate to email me over and over, commanding me to submit to him. When I finally told him simply that "I'm not interested," he responded, "stop teasing everyone."
I wasn't aware that I had done any such thing. I believe I'm allowed to express my personal fantasies and desires.
I have been in a BDSM relationship in the past and I have been part of the BDSM community in NYC and Philly. I have been to SM clubs and partiers and met real life Dominants and submissives, both male and female. A Dominant doesn't just start ordering a submissive around. They introduce themselves and talk to them like a normal human being and then discuss any personal possibilities. If anyone thought I was teasing that was not my intention, but if you are a real dominant then you should know how to conduct yourself. Stalking is not the answer.
I think I'm right about this. I'd appreciate hearing anyone else's opinion on the matter.

It's nothing you did. Some people just suck.

I'm very open about my status of being a domme, and some assholes will still try to force me into being a sub because I am a woman. I know female subs and they have it even worse.

Still, I encourage you to message admin about it. You can send them an email with screenshots at team@fantasyfeeder.com

This sounds like a fun topic to daydream about.

My ideal feedee would be dominant, tall, with dark hair and dark eyes. She'd know she's always in charge, always gets what she wants and uses that to her advantage very often.

-Lazy and demanding. If she's lounging around watching TV, or playing a game she'll know all she has to do is call my name and order me to grab her snacks.
-A little selfish and self obsessed. she knows she's the best, looks down on everyone and expects to be worshipped 24/7. all the food in the house belongs to her, she gets first priority on everything and makes that apparent often.
-Tiny bit of a slob. I can't stand bad smells, got a very sensitive nose so I can't say I enjoy full slob. But being expected to clean up her snacks, and keep the house clean for her would be insanely hot, reinforcing the fact that she's in charge and I'm there to cater to her every whim.
-Soft and cuddly. Goes par for the course with feedees. She loves cuddles, has a nice soft frame, big belly and loves pressing her weight against me, she knows it drives me crazy being pressed against her.
-Happy to show affection. Despite her selfish, lazy and gluttonous tendancies, she always makes me feel genuinely loved and isn't afraid to show of her sweet side from time to time just to let me know she really cares.

Fantasizing is fun, but I feel bad for creating people in my head lol.
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This is why I write stories. LOL
Fantasies are important. Everyone creates an ideal person that can never exist. And it's nice to have goals. I always say that my ideal Dominant would be a chef who is also a baker and a chocolatier - and it wouldn't hurt if he looked like Jason Mamoa. LOL Having a rich fantasy life is healthy as long as our expectations aren't too fantastical. I do wish there was an online service called Dom/mesRUs where we could file a detailed order and in three weeks have the perfect dominant delivered, but until that technology is made available I will continue to create fantasies that entertain me.