Fattening others

Modulo9:
My wife used to fluctuate with her weight. She's fatten up and then diet, fattened up again and diet. I always looked forward to her gaining weight again and knew it was inevitable as she liked food.

She's been on a gain train for the past four years and I love it!

JohnT:
The secret is to make her feel comfortable with the gain, underplay the gain if possible. For example as i was watching my girlfriend getting to the truly fat territory i tried to make adjustments so that she doesn’t mourn her loss of fitness and liberty. I started looking for places with accommodating seating without her realizing, or i would drop her off just outside the door so she avoids walking and when she truly started having mobility issues at over 500 pounds, I reassured her that using a wheelchair is absolutely fine. This was the most difficult task actually

Munchies:
That's manipulative.

JohnT:
She is aware i love her massiveness and she realized that she loves herself this size. There are obviously a few things one must sacrifice if one gets close to 600 pounds but she gains so much pleasure from giving in to her passion for overindulging.

Munchies:
Not beating the manipulation allegations.

Bukefalas:
Man if he is attempting manipulation he's really bad at it, you are actually supposed to conceal your intentions in order for a manipulation to be successful in most techniques aside from guilt tripping someone (*hint hint*) and JohnT just went ahead and told her his intentions, his underlying motive and desire for her to be massive and how much he loves her being that fat. Now if you are saying he is lying by omission not telling her how much he does to make sure she feels comfortable and accommodated, John keep us posted on this fingers crossed that your girlfriend stays in the dark about you being considerate of her weight and doing things to make her life more comfortable and that she never figures out the accommodations a 500lb person requires despite her being 500lbs because you really are pulling the wool over her eyes there. I think you made some mistakes trying to pull off this con but if somehow she just completely forgets you telling her your motives, you might be able to pull it off and make her fat with her being none the wiser. And if it falls through and she realizes she has been manipulated and wants to leave you, just come clean and constantly remind her of all the things you do like make sure she gets dropped off close to the door because she struggles with mobility or that you look for restaurants that can accommodate her, and remind her why you are doing it, tell her no a wheelchair is so embarrassing, that way you could never be accused of manipulating her, you can just shame her and give her a deep sense of inadequacy fostering a sense of dependence on you because of a lack of self confidence. Munchies can I ask why you find his behavior to be manipulative?

Bukefalas:
Man if he is attempting manipulation he's really bad at it, you are actually supposed to conceal your intentions in order for a manipulation to be successful in most techniques aside from guilt tripping someone (*hint hint*) and JohnT just went ahead and told her his intentions, his underlying motive and desire for her to be massive and how much he loves her being that fat. Now if you are saying he is lying by omission not telling her how much he does to make sure she feels comfortable and accommodated, John keep us posted on this fingers crossed that your girlfriend stays in the dark about you being considerate of her weight and doing things to make her life more comfortable and that she never figures out the accommodations a 500lb person requires despite her being 500lbs because you really are pulling the wool over her eyes there. I think you made some mistakes trying to pull off this con but if somehow she just completely forgets you telling her your motives, you might be able to pull it off and make her fat with her being none the wiser. And if it falls through and she realizes she has been manipulated and wants to leave you, just come clean and constantly remind her of all the things you do like make sure she gets dropped off close to the door because she struggles with mobility or that you look for restaurants that can accommodate her, and remind her why you are doing it, tell her no a wheelchair is so embarrassing, that way you could never be accused of manipulating her, you can just shame her and give her a deep sense of inadequacy fostering a sense of dependence on you because of a lack of self confidence. Munchies can I ask why you find his behavior to be manipulative?

Munchies:
Honestly, I am geniunely worried about you if you cannot see what's going on.

It started off with her being unhappy with her weight. John says in the first sentance he kept underplaying her weight. Why? Because he had plans to make her as fat as possible.

His accomodating her size without her realizing it isn't him looking out for her needs. If it was, they would have had an open, honest conversation about his kink, her body goals, and if she wanted to indulge his kink. Instead, he is making things easy for her knowing she struggles to slim down and would take the path of least resistance. It's not that she wanted to be fat. He used her personality against her to get what he wanted.

And speaking of the path of least resistance, let's talk about her declining mobility. He talks about how he helped her with her mobility at first. Then when she got too fat to move around without a wheelchair, he convinced her to use the wheelchair. This means she was not happy with her waning mobility.

He should have had a conversation with her. Talked to her about her mobility goals and did whatever she decided. Instead, he convinced her to go the route he wanted for her.

All I have seen in his posts is a man systematically manipulating an insecure, weak woman into living out his fetish. I am a sadistic domme extreme feedee. I love torturing my partner and causing him pain. But I only do it with his ENTHUSIASTIC consent which he can revoke anytime.

I fattenened my partner to 500 lbs. It was too much for him. Instead of convincing him to power through and keep going, I helped him lose weight so he could be comfortable.

If John's partner was one of those feedees that enjoyed losing mobility, he wouldn't need to convince her to use the wheelchair. Have you seen those kinds of feedees? They are excited to be that fat. Turns them on. This woman is just quietly accepting her fate.

Bukefalas:
Man if he is attempting manipulation he's really bad at it, you are actually supposed to conceal your intentions in order for a manipulation to be successful in most techniques aside from guilt tripping someone (*hint hint*) and JohnT just went ahead and told her his intentions, his underlying motive and desire for her to be massive and how much he loves her being that fat. Now if you are saying he is lying by omission not telling her how much he does to make sure she feels comfortable and accommodated, John keep us posted on this fingers crossed that your girlfriend stays in the dark about you being considerate of her weight and doing things to make her life more comfortable and that she never figures out the accommodations a 500lb person requires despite her being 500lbs because you really are pulling the wool over her eyes there. I think you made some mistakes trying to pull off this con but if somehow she just completely forgets you telling her your motives, you might be able to pull it off and make her fat with her being none the wiser. And if it falls through and she realizes she has been manipulated and wants to leave you, just come clean and constantly remind her of all the things you do like make sure she gets dropped off close to the door because she struggles with mobility or that you look for restaurants that can accommodate her, and remind her why you are doing it, tell her no a wheelchair is so embarrassing, that way you could never be accused of manipulating her, you can just shame her and give her a deep sense of inadequacy fostering a sense of dependence on you because of a lack of self confidence. Munchies can I ask why you find his behavior to be manipulative?

Munchies:
Honestly, I am geniunely worried about you if you cannot see what's going on.

It started off with her being unhappy with her weight. John says in the first sentance he kept underplaying her weight. Why? Because he had plans to make her as fat as possible.

His accomodating her size without her realizing it isn't him looking out for her needs. If it was, they would have had an open, honest conversation about his kink, her body goals, and if she wanted to indulge his kink. Instead, he is making things easy for her knowing she struggles to slim down and would take the path of least resistance. It's not that she wanted to be fat. He used her personality against her to get what he wanted.

And speaking of the path of least resistance, let's talk about her declining mobility. He talks about how he helped her with her mobility at first. Then when she got too fat to move around without a wheelchair, he convinced her to use the wheelchair. This means she was not happy with her waning mobility.

He should have had a conversation with her. Talked to her about her mobility goals and did whatever she decided. Instead, he convinced her to go the route he wanted for her.

All I have seen in his posts is a man systematically manipulating an insecure, weak woman into living out his fetish. I am a sadistic domme extreme feedee. I love torturing my partner and causing him pain. But I only do it with his ENTHUSIASTIC consent which he can revoke anytime.

I fattenened my partner to 500 lbs. It was too much for him. Instead of convincing him to power through and keep going, I helped him lose weight so he could be comfortable.

If John's partner was one of those feedees that enjoyed losing mobility, he wouldn't need to convince her to use the wheelchair. Have you seen those kinds of feedees? They are excited to be that fat. Turns them on. This woman is just quietly accepting her fate.

English Feeder:
My partner is in a wheelchair. But it was something she wanted years before it became necessary.
She enjoys me pushing her and taking her to restaurants and public places. We live in England and disabled access is available everywhere. Not that we use public transport but buses can lower there suspension. ( A few exceptions old buildings ) She has a made to measure bariatric wheelchair. We have found that the general public and staff are always helpful and accommodating. Holding doors. Finding suitable access. But regarding the general thread there are several ways of looking at it. If i was not accommodating in my partner's need for a wheelchair would she have chosen to loose mobility to where she needs a wheelchair? I have on occasion gone to the pub ( i like a ale ) i have had enough ready to leave a mate will say don't go yet let me get you another pint. It leads to what we call a session.I end up having a curry or Chinese maybe a kebab on the way home. End up getting home early hours. Wake up with a thick head. Was it my mates fault??? No....
Did i have a good night? Actually yes
If you apply that to the current thread everything is ok. We don't know the personal dynamics of the relationship. But i do agree there could be red flags. Everything in life is fine provided it's by mutual consent.

English Feeder:
My partner is in a wheelchair. But it was something she wanted years before it became necessary.
She enjoys me pushing her and taking her to restaurants and public places. We live in England and disabled access is available everywhere. Not that we use public transport but buses can lower there suspension. ( A few exceptions old buildings ) She has a made to measure bariatric wheelchair. We have found that the general public and staff are always helpful and accommodating. Holding doors. Finding suitable access. But regarding the general thread there are several ways of looking at it. If i was not accommodating in my partner's need for a wheelchair would she have chosen to loose mobility to where she needs a wheelchair? I have on occasion gone to the pub ( i like a ale ) i have had enough ready to leave a mate will say don't go yet let me get you another pint. It leads to what we call a session.I end up having a curry or Chinese maybe a kebab on the way home. End up getting home early hours. Wake up with a thick head. Was it my mates fault??? No....
Did i have a good night? Actually yes
If you apply that to the current thread everything is ok. We don't know the personal dynamics of the relationship. But i do agree there could be red flags. Everything in life is fine provided it's by mutual consent.

Munchies:
You didn't read the thread either.

The issue is not "fattening your partner so much they need a wheelchair." If both you and your partner have had open, honest conversations with enthusiastic consent on both ends, I don't care. You do you boo.

The issue is he did not do that with her. He made is extremely clear that he "convinced" her to do this. She did not want to do this. He's been subtilty manipulating her until she made her peace with her circumstances.

I'm not looking for subtext. I am reading exactly what he said. I am taking this man at his word without adding or subtracting anything that he's said.

Don't defend people just because you are trying put on a shoe that doesn't fit you. It ain't a cute look.

English Feeder:
My partner is in a wheelchair. But it was something she wanted years before it became necessary.
She enjoys me pushing her and taking her to restaurants and public places. We live in England and disabled access is available everywhere. Not that we use public transport but buses can lower there suspension. ( A few exceptions old buildings ) She has a made to measure bariatric wheelchair. We have found that the general public and staff are always helpful and accommodating. Holding doors. Finding suitable access. But regarding the general thread there are several ways of looking at it. If i was not accommodating in my partner's need for a wheelchair would she have chosen to loose mobility to where she needs a wheelchair? I have on occasion gone to the pub ( i like a ale ) i have had enough ready to leave a mate will say don't go yet let me get you another pint. It leads to what we call a session.I end up having a curry or Chinese maybe a kebab on the way home. End up getting home early hours. Wake up with a thick head. Was it my mates fault??? No....
Did i have a good night? Actually yes
If you apply that to the current thread everything is ok. We don't know the personal dynamics of the relationship. But i do agree there could be red flags. Everything in life is fine provided it's by mutual consent.

Munchies:
You didn't read the thread either.

The issue is not "fattening your partner so much they need a wheelchair." If both you and your partner have had open, honest conversations with enthusiastic consent on both ends, I don't care. You do you boo.

The issue is he did not do that with her. He made is extremely clear that he "convinced" her to do this. She did not want to do this. He's been subtilty manipulating her until she made her peace with her circumstances.

I'm not looking for subtext. I am reading exactly what he said. I am taking this man at his word without adding or subtracting anything that he's said.

Don't defend people just because you are trying put on a shoe that doesn't fit you. It ain't a cute look.

English Feeder:
Looks like you make a lot of assumptions . I can read by the way.
Lol

English Feeder:
My partner is in a wheelchair. But it was something she wanted years before it became necessary.
She enjoys me pushing her and taking her to restaurants and public places. We live in England and disabled access is available everywhere. Not that we use public transport but buses can lower there suspension. ( A few exceptions old buildings ) She has a made to measure bariatric wheelchair. We have found that the general public and staff are always helpful and accommodating. Holding doors. Finding suitable access. But regarding the general thread there are several ways of looking at it. If i was not accommodating in my partner's need for a wheelchair would she have chosen to loose mobility to where she needs a wheelchair? I have on occasion gone to the pub ( i like a ale ) i have had enough ready to leave a mate will say don't go yet let me get you another pint. It leads to what we call a session.I end up having a curry or Chinese maybe a kebab on the way home. End up getting home early hours. Wake up with a thick head. Was it my mates fault??? No....
Did i have a good night? Actually yes
If you apply that to the current thread everything is ok. We don't know the personal dynamics of the relationship. But i do agree there could be red flags. Everything in life is fine provided it's by mutual consent.

Munchies:
You didn't read the thread either.

The issue is not "fattening your partner so much they need a wheelchair." If both you and your partner have had open, honest conversations with enthusiastic consent on both ends, I don't care. You do you boo.

The issue is he did not do that with her. He made is extremely clear that he "convinced" her to do this. She did not want to do this. He's been subtilty manipulating her until she made her peace with her circumstances.

I'm not looking for subtext. I am reading exactly what he said. I am taking this man at his word without adding or subtracting anything that he's said.

Don't defend people just because you are trying put on a shoe that doesn't fit you. It ain't a cute look.

English Feeder:
Looks like you make a lot of assumptions . I can read by the way.
Lol

SumoSized:
My guy it's written in plain text that he's defending systematically making her feel inadequate and dependent on him. That is just flat out abuse and manipulative as hell. I literally assemble wheelchairs for a living, it is a huge ask to have someone be dependent on them for a fetish. I'm not trying to kink shame anyone who is interested in that, I'm genuinely happy that your wife feels comfortable and safe enough with you that she trusts you take care of her. This is an entirely different story than yours. This is someone who is trying to make someone that reliant on them without building up the trust first or really getting their consent. None of that are assumptions that is plainly laid out. I believe there is enough information to start making assumptions such as him having a kink for power dynamics, and if things were to get abusive he could potentially put her in a position where she can't get away due to mobility issues. But that can't be proven one way or the other without further information

English Feeder:
My partner is in a wheelchair. But it was something she wanted years before it became necessary.
She enjoys me pushing her and taking her to restaurants and public places. We live in England and disabled access is available everywhere. Not that we use public transport but buses can lower there suspension. ( A few exceptions old buildings ) She has a made to measure bariatric wheelchair. We have found that the general public and staff are always helpful and accommodating. Holding doors. Finding suitable access. But regarding the general thread there are several ways of looking at it. If i was not accommodating in my partner's need for a wheelchair would she have chosen to loose mobility to where she needs a wheelchair? I have on occasion gone to the pub ( i like a ale ) i have had enough ready to leave a mate will say don't go yet let me get you another pint. It leads to what we call a session.I end up having a curry or Chinese maybe a kebab on the way home. End up getting home early hours. Wake up with a thick head. Was it my mates fault??? No....
Did i have a good night? Actually yes
If you apply that to the current thread everything is ok. We don't know the personal dynamics of the relationship. But i do agree there could be red flags. Everything in life is fine provided it's by mutual consent.

Munchies:
You didn't read the thread either.

The issue is not "fattening your partner so much they need a wheelchair." If both you and your partner have had open, honest conversations with enthusiastic consent on both ends, I don't care. You do you boo.

The issue is he did not do that with her. He made is extremely clear that he "convinced" her to do this. She did not want to do this. He's been subtilty manipulating her until she made her peace with her circumstances.

I'm not looking for subtext. I am reading exactly what he said. I am taking this man at his word without adding or subtracting anything that he's said.

Don't defend people just because you are trying put on a shoe that doesn't fit you. It ain't a cute look.

English Feeder:
Looks like you make a lot of assumptions . I can read by the way.
Lol