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Hi! So I tried doing some force feeding kink play with my partner last night and it.. didn't go so well. We've tried a couple times in the past but it's always a mixed bag as to how it goes. Which really sucks because we're both super into the idea!

Just wondering if other people have tried, and how it went for them. Maybe even ask for advice I guess?

For us, the best we've found is having me on all fours while he pushes my head into cake. But that position gets uncomfortable so fast! And I always burn out on the cake's flavor before finishing even half, even if im not full yet

Flavor fatigue is my biggest weakness I think, but there aren't a lot of non-dessert soft foods that would be good for this, atleast that I know of anyways

Some of it will depend on how you want to engage with the force feeding kink and/or BDSM. You can have much more comfortable positions, like being on your back propped up by pillows, if you aren't worried so much by physical restraint and domination, instead relying on verbal "coersion" or "punishment/reward" play.

Remember that force feeding doesn't just have to be about having your face pushed into food so you have no choice other than to eat--it's about entering a headspace where you give your partner control of how much you eat. The method is secondary to that.

For more specific advice, consider some foods like popcorn, pork rinds, or rice if you don't want to use cake for your face-in-food style sessions.

You can also try funnel-feeding if you haven't already; shakes and smoothies are incredibly filling, and you can be lightly tied to the headboard of your bed to give your partner control over how much you drink.

Mix it up. Get portions of savory and sweet foods to combat flavor fatigue. Soft savory foods can include:

- Mashed potatoes
- Chili
- Pasta
- Scrambled eggs
- Beans
- Casseroles
- Shepard's pie
- Pot pie

If you are bent on kneeling (no pun intended), pillows, stools, tables, or any other low furniture can make it more comfortable. Alternatively, you can buy a kneeling bench. You can get a decent one for $200 - $400 with tax.

That said, you do not need to knee for a good force-feeding experience. My partner prefers to either sit in a comfortable chair or lie on the bed with a towel. From there I'll either hand feed him or, if you like verbal domination, demand he feeds himself based on a pace or amount I choose.