Fattening others

Anm90p:
How do you go about introducing your kinks? Like hey girl, do you like to eat? Because, I’ll feed you all you can eat and then some. Hate your diet? I’ll put you on the opposite of diet. Struggling to lose weight? You can thrive gaining weight.

Any advice?

Milhause:
I don’t know if there’s a perfect way to introduce kinks to a new partner, but I’m fairly certain this would be the wrong way to do it.

Johnxyz:
Most women do not want to gain weight, and if you push it, or even mention it, you'll probably lose her. There is also a lot of things that are important other than gaining. And if a woman thinks you like her only because she will gain, you'll probably lose her. So, you may have to either find her on a gaining website, or mention you like large or gaining woman when you use conventional methods.

Gettingfatter25:
My boyfriend started me out slowly. An extra snack here. Some ice cream there. I didn’t notice the gain initial. When clothing strarted getting tight and I started mentioning a diet he told me he liked to see my body grow but it was up to me. Let’s just say I am very big now.

Stayff55:
First of all, don't force it.

In the first case, the girl was short, so even a slight change in weight was immediately visible. She accidentally gained several pounds. When I discovered that I was into it, I told her straight. It was too much for her.

In the second case, the partner was already about 220 pounds and was 5'4". Before meeting her, she weighed about 150, but due to medical reasons her weight increased to almost 250 and then dropped to 220.

Her figure was extremely feminine and then I knew that I couldn't immediately tell her that I wanted her to be bigger. She was a foodie even though she didn't know it. I took advantage of this and tried to cook simple dishes, and on dates we went out to eat. Over time, when she gained a few pounds, I told her that I admired her figure. She thought I wanted her to lose weight. Her reaction when I told her that she was perfect but could gain weight if she wanted was priceless.

She had a talent for it - she liked to eat, and her metabolism made it very easy. After several dozen pounds, our paths diverged. In hindsight, I regret it because she was the only partner who knew so much about me, accepted it, and in return I accepted her.

Anm90p:
How do you go about introducing your kinks? Like hey girl, do you like to eat? Because, I’ll feed you all you can eat and then some. Hate your diet? I’ll put you on the opposite of diet. Struggling to lose weight? You can thrive gaining weight.

Any advice?

Milhause:
I don’t know if there’s a perfect way to introduce kinks to a new partner, but I’m fairly certain this would be the wrong way to do it.

Anm90p:
How do you go about introducing your kinks? Like hey girl, do you like to eat? Because, I’ll feed you all you can eat and then some. Hate your diet? I’ll put you on the opposite of diet. Struggling to lose weight? You can thrive gaining weight.

Any advice?

Milhause:
I don’t know if there’s a perfect way to introduce kinks to a new partner, but I’m fairly certain this would be the wrong way to do it.

Casually Walking:
I second this, you have to ease into it as softly and slowly as possible to gauge her reactions first, see if she appears to be against it, neutral or may find it appealing

The easiest way to ease her into it would be just to go on dates as normal, not bringing anything out of the ordinary to the table, but offer desserts after a meal, and candy and maybe a larger drink for movies. Just be you with the kink dialled back, no feeding, no talking about diets, just get to know her. If you bring up diets, or push bigger portions or desserts too much, then that might weird her out

Important thing that I feel I shouldn't have to mention because it's common sense, but I work retail and know how uncommon common sense has become, if she doesn't finish her meal, don't offer desserts, at most just ask "one more bite?" but only if you've dated for long enough to be cozy with one another, and if she says no to snacks then you should only ask "are you sure?" and nothing more, don't push, don't force. Also, remember how much she can handle

During all of this, remember to see how she reacts, and with you acting as caring (because you should be caring and loving of your partner whether they have or accept the kink or not) she will start associating food with you. I am not condoning manipulation mind you, if you feel like you can't love her without the kink involved, then break up, don't manipulate someone for your benefit

I hope this makes sense, English is not my first language and I barely passed writing assignments when I was in school