Fattening others

There aren’t many, if anyone, on feedrism forums or feabie where I live. How would you introduce feedrism and gaining to a new fat girl you’re dating?

I like all sizes but I try for a minimum 220ibs women, or 180ibs if I really have to push it. I feel like this is typically when someone would have a good idea whether they like to be fat or not. But I’m too scared of weirding them out.

How do you go about introducing your kinks? Like hey girl, do you like to eat? Because, I’ll feed you all you can eat and then some. Hate your diet? I’ll put you on the opposite of diet. Struggling to lose weight? You can thrive gaining weight.

Or am I doing rizz wrong? I mean I’m kinda of awkward about and wish to live the dream too, and be a woman’s dream too.

Any advice?

I don’t know if there’s a perfect way to introduce kinks to a new partner, but I’m fairly certain this would be the wrong way to do it.

Yeah, I get that I’m no poet. What I’m trying to say time I don’t want go to a few dates, only to shock the poor woman with a weird kink.

Is there a way to kind of signal it early enough, so the right people know early on? I hope to not waste people’s time by building this expectation only to find out about this deal breaker kink 3 months in.

Most women do not want to gain weight, and if you push it, or even mention it, you'll probably lose her. There is also a lot of things that are important other than gaining. And if a woman thinks you like her only because she will gain, you'll probably lose her. So, you may have to either find her on a gaining website, or mention you like large or gaining woman when you use conventional methods.

Yeah, most women would never do it. I think mentioning before the swipe is the fairest approach, until gaining sites gain some more popularity. It’s not like I swipe on slim profiles either

My boyfriend started me out slowly. An extra snack here. Some ice cream there. I didn’t notice the gain initial. When clothing strarted getting tight and I started mentioning a diet he told me he liked to see my body grow but it was up to me. Let’s just say I am very big now.

First of all, don't force it.

In the first case, the girl was short, so even a slight change in weight was immediately visible. She accidentally gained several pounds. When I discovered that I was into it, I told her straight. It was too much for her.

In the second case, the partner was already about 220 pounds and was 5'4". Before meeting her, she weighed about 150, but due to medical reasons her weight increased to almost 250 and then dropped to 220.

Her figure was extremely feminine and then I knew that I couldn't immediately tell her that I wanted her to be bigger. She was a foodie even though she didn't know it. I took advantage of this and tried to cook simple dishes, and on dates we went out to eat. Over time, when she gained a few pounds, I told her that I admired her figure. She thought I wanted her to lose weight. Her reaction when I told her that she was perfect but could gain weight if she wanted was priceless.

She had a talent for it - she liked to eat, and her metabolism made it very easy. After several dozen pounds, our paths diverged. In hindsight, I regret it because she was the only partner who knew so much about me, accepted it, and in return I accepted her.

I’m so glad this worked out for you two, you must very happy. I never risked it in past relationships, but I guess I should have

I hope you meet someone like that again and it works out for you 🙏🏼