Submission and domination

Soft, then hard

Definitely soft dom, but I do like teasing. When my fiance pokes or tickles my fat belly or grabs a back roll, it drives me wild. He never humiliates me, but he does tease me about splitting seams or not being able to get through a narrow doorway. That gets my motor running too.

Both. I want to be praised and told how good I am for cleaning my plate the measured and weighed and teased for what I've done to myself becoming such a fat bitch everything jiggles

While eating or stuffing or being fed: soft and encouraging, *seducing* me to eat more and praising my progress.

After? Heh heh... Teasing, embarrassing, maybe spanking, what have I done to myself, and maybe even taken out in public in tight clothes to show me off.

I have tried to be both soft dom to the feedees I met at the beginning of the summer is when I really got into Feedism. But I feel like I was never really given the chance to be more Hard Dom. I mean like I bought these feedees I met on Feabie Luxury Hotels we stayed in NYC for a couple of hours tried to stuff them but they just didn't have the capacity to stuff, the way they kept explaining to me they wanted to be stuffed and they didn't really do it lost it for me. But Overall If Given the chance I would love to do a Hard Dom stuffing Session with a Feedee/Gainer

Sadistic domme here. Capacity has nothing to so with being a soft or hard dom. It's all about mindset. I've done been a hard domme many times without food

Also, capacity training is a thing. If this is a feedee you want to see long term, you can put in the work to increase her capacity. Just make sure you are being realistic about your goals. Too many feeders don't know jack shit about the human body, and it leads to people getting hurt.