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Questioning the fetish

Recently, I've been feeling off due to being so invested in the fat fetish. Like, I know it's fine to like what I like, but it feels wrong with how much I view on the sites/apps pretty much all of us use. It feels as though I shouldn't be into things I've been into for YEARS now.

Currently, I have plans to quit the fetish full-on; a full-blown, scorched Earth method that includes deleting/deactivating/signing out of EVERYTHING that has even an ounce of feederism/fat fetish. I don't want to do it, but it seems like the only way.

What are some ways y'all have dealt with similar personal issues? How would I go about overcoming/accepting the fetish?
1 month

Questioning the fetish

Abol:
Recently, I've been feeling off due to being so invested in the fat fetish. Like, I know it's fine to like what I like, but it feels wrong with how much I view on the sites/apps pretty much all of us use. It feels as though I shouldn't be into things I've been into for YEARS now.

Currently, I have plans to quit the fetish full-on; a full-blown, scorched Earth method that includes deleting/deactivating/signing out of EVERYTHING that has even an ounce of feederism/fat fetish. I don't want to do it, but it seems like the only way.

What are some ways y'all have dealt with similar personal issues? How would I go about overcoming/accepting the fetish?


I've seen this before. People get too obsessed with this fetish and capitulate the other way. Instead of taking a break, becoming more in tune with themselves, and finding a healthy balance between kink and everything else, they repress it all.

Eventually they cave and come back feeling worse than ever.

Take a break from things, by all means. But actually work on yourself. Maybe you'll come back. Maybe you won't. But at least you'll be happy with your choices.
1 month

Questioning the fetish

Abol:
Recently, I've been feeling off due to being so invested in the fat fetish. Like, I know it's fine to like what I like, but it feels wrong with how much I view on the sites/apps pretty much all of us use. It feels as though I shouldn't be into things I've been into for YEARS now.

Currently, I have plans to quit the fetish full-on; a full-blown, scorched Earth method that includes deleting/deactivating/signing out of EVERYTHING that has even an ounce of feederism/fat fetish. I don't want to do it, but it seems like the only way.

What are some ways y'all have dealt with similar personal issues? How would I go about overcoming/accepting the fetish?

Munchies:
I've seen this before. People get too obsessed with this fetish and capitulate the other way. Instead of taking a break, becoming more in tune with themselves, and finding a healthy balance between kink and everything else, they repress it all.

Eventually they cave and come back feeling worse than ever.

Take a break from things, by all means. But actually work on yourself. Maybe you'll come back. Maybe you won't. But at least you'll be happy with your choices.


This is actually great advice, thank you!

I believe a break instead of quitting is definitely a better, more collected way to do things.
1 month