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Fattening in secret

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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Ninjaturtle94:
I’m just really looking forward to gaining

Highway:
Almost everyone gains weight during the holidays. If it were me, I would just use that excuse and continue to gain. You never know your wife might like it, and this problem would be solved.

PolyPinoyPuppy:
This has already been suggested. Furthermore, OP has already said their wife has shown discomfort with the extra weight OP has.

This isn't solving the problem. This is ignoring the problem and hoping it goes away.

Highway:
I don’t remember reading that the OP said his wife had a problem with his weight or his appearance. The OP stated that his wife had a problem with the fetish. All I’m saying is that the holidays are a great excuse to gain some weight and who knows His wife might How the extra weight looks on him. It’s not like he’s a small guy. He already weighs over 300 pounds so I don’t think she has a Fatphobia, At least towards him anyway.


Then maybe you should read better. Listening to you is going to make him divorced.
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Fattening in secret

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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
Ninjaturtle94:
There’s just a lot of wasted potential with her hands not being on this body haha


That's an interesting way to look at it. Very ... transactional.

Mind you, I'm coming at this as an extreme feeder. A good feedist relationship isn't too dissimilar to a partnership - or even a marriage. You two are a team that needs to have good communication, emotional maturity, balance, boundaries, and regular check ins. Failure to do this can destroy everything you set out to do.

I've kicked feedees to the curb for being terrible at this. It is mentally destructive to watch a feedee throw themselves into gaining weight and put it above everything else. Especially if you are in a relationship with them.
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