General

EzP:
I know the topic itself is usually sexual, but for me, I don't always feel sexual about it. My journey is part of me being comfortable with myself and enjoying the food and the journey. Sure I feel some sort of sexual gratification from it sometimes, but not all the time. That and I was thinking about having a relationship(which I probably will make a post about on another forum) that wasn't just sexual. Is that a completely different thing or is it part of feederism? I've only joined the community pretty recently, so I apologize if I may be wrong.

EzP:
I know the topic itself is usually sexual, but for me, I don't always feel sexual about it. My journey is part of me being comfortable with myself and enjoying the food and the journey. Sure I feel some sort of sexual gratification from it sometimes, but not all the time. That and I was thinking about having a relationship(which I probably will make a post about on another forum) that wasn't just sexual. Is that a completely different thing or is it part of feederism? I've only joined the community pretty recently, so I apologize if I may be wrong.

Munchies:
Feedism is, at it's core, about feeding people and being fed. Fat fetishism is all about enjoying fatness.

Both of these things are not inherently sexual.

Plus, this community has a good chunk of sex-repulsed ace people. If they can find their bliss here, so can you.

EzP:
I know the topic itself is usually sexual, but for me, I don't always feel sexual about it. My journey is part of me being comfortable with myself and enjoying the food and the journey. Sure I feel some sort of sexual gratification from it sometimes, but not all the time. That and I was thinking about having a relationship(which I probably will make a post about on another forum) that wasn't just sexual. Is that a completely different thing or is it part of feederism? I've only joined the community pretty recently, so I apologize if I may be wrong.

Munchies:
Feedism is, at it's core, about feeding people and being fed. Fat fetishism is all about enjoying fatness.

Both of these things are not inherently sexual.

Plus, this community has a good chunk of sex-repulsed ace people. If they can find their bliss here, so can you.

BigBallBellyGirl:
Completely right. I liked being chubby/fat as a kid, and I liked fat characters in books and TV, long before I had sexual thoughts or feelings. My first grade teacher was a big woman, and I thought she was pretty and sweet.

Same with my husband. He is of course sexually attracted to fat, but he also just finds a full figure visually pleasing in a non-sexual way.

Of course fat admiration, gaining, etc. can be sexy, but that's not all it is. There's a place for everyone here!

Newenglander:
I'm drawn to fat women. It's very much sexual for me. Just being in one's presence can be a tease in and of itself.

One acquaintance has gained about 150 lbs during the past four years, putting her close to 400. She isn't thrilled about it but doesn't do much to change. I doubt she's fully aware of this community or even fat fetishes in general.

Occasionally, when our paths cross and we're free, we'll make time to chat with one another and catch up. There have been occasions when we've spent hours together, then when I propose leaving, often she'll say something to keep the conversation going. Sometimes she'll do this over and over. Neither of us are single. I'll admit, I enjoy her attention probably as much as she enjoys my company.

Were she to realize and exploit my fetish, trouble could ensue. This girl's obesity would make her difficult to resist.