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Can feederism be non sexual or is it mainly that?

I know the topic itself is usually sexual, but for me, I don't always feel sexual about it. My journey is part of me being comfortable with myself and enjoying the food and the journey. Sure I feel some sort of sexual gratification from it sometimes, but not all the time. That and I was thinking about having a relationship(which I probably will make a post about on another forum) that wasn't just sexual. Is that a completely different thing or is it part of feederism? I've only joined the community pretty recently, so I apologize if I may be wrong.
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Can feederism be non sexual or is it mainly that?

absolutely! i actually just this minute dropped off my friend/feeder. we’ve been gaming buddies for the longest and i finally met him! it was the most pleasantly non sexual meet i’ve ever had. we watched abbot elementary the entire time and went to multiple spots (: i was joking about being down to eat this and that and he got it. like in the end i got to eat a whole tuxedo cake 🥹i’ll add more to this i’m driving home 🏡
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Can feederism be non sexual or is it mainly that?

Eveluvzfood:
absolutely! i actually just this minute dropped off my friend/feeder. we’ve been gaming buddies for the longest and i finally met him! it was the most pleasantly non sexual meet i’ve ever had. we watched abbot elementary the entire time and went to multiple spots (: i was joking about being down to eat this and that and he got it. like in the end i got to eat a whole tuxedo cake 🥹i’ll add more to this i’m driving home 🏡


Thank you for the explanation! This really does help a lot.
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Can feederism be non sexual or is it mainly that?

EzP:
I know the topic itself is usually sexual, but for me, I don't always feel sexual about it. My journey is part of me being comfortable with myself and enjoying the food and the journey. Sure I feel some sort of sexual gratification from it sometimes, but not all the time. That and I was thinking about having a relationship(which I probably will make a post about on another forum) that wasn't just sexual. Is that a completely different thing or is it part of feederism? I've only joined the community pretty recently, so I apologize if I may be wrong.


Feedism is, at it's core, about feeding people and being fed. Fat fetishism is all about enjoying fatness.

Both of these things are not inherently sexual.

Plus, this community has a good chunk of sex-repulsed ace people. If they can find their bliss here, so can you.
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Can feederism be non sexual or is it mainly that?

EzP:
I know the topic itself is usually sexual, but for me, I don't always feel sexual about it. My journey is part of me being comfortable with myself and enjoying the food and the journey. Sure I feel some sort of sexual gratification from it sometimes, but not all the time. That and I was thinking about having a relationship(which I probably will make a post about on another forum) that wasn't just sexual. Is that a completely different thing or is it part of feederism? I've only joined the community pretty recently, so I apologize if I may be wrong.

Munchies:
Feedism is, at it's core, about feeding people and being fed. Fat fetishism is all about enjoying fatness.

Both of these things are not inherently sexual.

Plus, this community has a good chunk of sex-repulsed ace people. If they can find their bliss here, so can you.


Completely right. I liked being chubby/fat as a kid, and I liked fat characters in books and TV, long before I had sexual thoughts or feelings. My first grade teacher was a big woman, and I thought she was pretty and sweet.

Same with my husband. He is of course sexually attracted to fat, but he also just finds a full figure visually pleasing in a non-sexual way.

Of course fat admiration, gaining, etc. can be sexy, but that's not all it is. There's a place for everyone here!
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Can feederism be non sexual or is it mainly that?

EzP:
I know the topic itself is usually sexual, but for me, I don't always feel sexual about it. My journey is part of me being comfortable with myself and enjoying the food and the journey. Sure I feel some sort of sexual gratification from it sometimes, but not all the time. That and I was thinking about having a relationship(which I probably will make a post about on another forum) that wasn't just sexual. Is that a completely different thing or is it part of feederism? I've only joined the community pretty recently, so I apologize if I may be wrong.

Munchies:
Feedism is, at it's core, about feeding people and being fed. Fat fetishism is all about enjoying fatness.

Both of these things are not inherently sexual.

Plus, this community has a good chunk of sex-repulsed ace people. If they can find their bliss here, so can you.


Thank you for the response!
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Can feederism be non sexual or is it mainly that?

Absolutely. In fact I go as far as saying that it can be your identity sexually. For me it is at least.

I don't identify myself with anything, don't have any urges or wants, and my desire is non existent.

But when it comes to food, eating well, feeling good with my curves, I don't think there's anything else that can cause me such glee or excitement.

I also dream of a platonic relationship linked to feedism or not. It's just a matter of finding someone who is right for you.
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Can feederism be non sexual or is it mainly that?

EzP:
I know the topic itself is usually sexual, but for me, I don't always feel sexual about it. My journey is part of me being comfortable with myself and enjoying the food and the journey. Sure I feel some sort of sexual gratification from it sometimes, but not all the time. That and I was thinking about having a relationship(which I probably will make a post about on another forum) that wasn't just sexual. Is that a completely different thing or is it part of feederism? I've only joined the community pretty recently, so I apologize if I may be wrong.

Munchies:
Feedism is, at it's core, about feeding people and being fed. Fat fetishism is all about enjoying fatness.

Both of these things are not inherently sexual.

Plus, this community has a good chunk of sex-repulsed ace people. If they can find their bliss here, so can you.

BigBallBellyGirl:
Completely right. I liked being chubby/fat as a kid, and I liked fat characters in books and TV, long before I had sexual thoughts or feelings. My first grade teacher was a big woman, and I thought she was pretty and sweet.

Same with my husband. He is of course sexually attracted to fat, but he also just finds a full figure visually pleasing in a non-sexual way.

Of course fat admiration, gaining, etc. can be sexy, but that's not all it is. There's a place for everyone here!


Thank you for the response! It really does help a lot.
1 day

Can feederism be non sexual or is it mainly that?

EzP:
I know the topic itself is usually sexual, but for me, I don't always feel sexual about it. My journey is part of me being comfortable with myself and enjoying the food and the journey. Sure I feel some sort of sexual gratification from it sometimes, but not all the time. That and I was thinking about having a relationship(which I probably will make a post about on another forum) that wasn't just sexual. Is that a completely different thing or is it part of feederism? I've only joined the community pretty recently, so I apologize if I may be wrong.

Munchies:
Feedism is, at it's core, about feeding people and being fed. Fat fetishism is all about enjoying fatness.

Both of these things are not inherently sexual.

Plus, this community has a good chunk of sex-repulsed ace people. If they can find their bliss here, so can you.

BigBallBellyGirl:
Completely right. I liked being chubby/fat as a kid, and I liked fat characters in books and TV, long before I had sexual thoughts or feelings. My first grade teacher was a big woman, and I thought she was pretty and sweet.

Same with my husband. He is of course sexually attracted to fat, but he also just finds a full figure visually pleasing in a non-sexual way.

Of course fat admiration, gaining, etc. can be sexy, but that's not all it is. There's a place for everyone here!


I agree & can relate. It took me a while to get comfortable in my own skin & I enjoy being fat. I was always particularly drawn towards fat characters in tv & books as well.

I'm sexually attracted to fat, my wife is a bbw. I also find full figures to be visually appealing as well. I have always found full figure to be more appealing to me, in a non-sexual way, that's what my preference has been for a long time.
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Can feederism be non sexual or is it mainly that?

Fat is both sexual and not sexual for me. I absolutely appreciate the beauty of fat on anyone in a non sexual way, but I am also only sexually attracted to someone who is at least chubby.
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