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I think it can be. It can be about an aesthetic or experience. But I also feel we shouldn't put certain behaviors under the umbrella of feedism just because people like them at times. There are plenty of people that like food, cooking, providing, or even feeding others without having any awareness or connection to feedism or fat admiration.

I'm drawn to fat women. It's very much sexual for me. Just being in one's presence can be a tease in and of itself.

One acquaintance has gained about 150 lbs during the past four years, putting her close to 400. She isn't thrilled about it but doesn't do much to change. I doubt she's fully aware of this community or even fat fetishes in general.

Occasionally, when our paths cross and we're free, we'll make time to chat with one another and catch up. There have been occasions when we've spent hours together, then when I propose leaving, often she'll say something to keep the conversation going. Sometimes she'll do this over and over. Neither of us are single. I'll admit, I enjoy her attention probably as much as she enjoys my company.

Were she to realize and exploit my fetish, trouble could ensue. This girl's obesity would make her difficult to resist.

I suppose the beauty of being in a relationship with your wife and her sister is that they are also okay with you being with other women.

This site and members are very diverse. As has been indicated in posts so far. As a fat appreciator and gainer, I love to see fatness, where on the body different people gain, how big do they look. That’s my thing. The more rolls and folds the better.

I am still interested and attracted to all woman, I not that sexual myself, the physical act of sex I am not interested in that at all. So porn is a turn off. But images of expansive fat done with style is visually stimulating.

Thank you so much for all the responses! It does help me learn more about the people here and the community itself as a whole.