Tomdavies:
Well ideally as a feeder role but obviously quite concious that it’s a huge commitment especially if like never shown interest in feederism. So was wondering if a non-gaining would be better or just to introduce her to the whole thing. Or not at all if it would put her off completely…
Secrets don't stay secret for long. They will come out one day, especially since you are in kink space. It's better to do it on your own terms rather than let her find out on her own.
Be open and honest with her, but don't try to influence her opinion on the matter.
Here's something that will help you with having that talk:
loradayton.com/2022/01/26/how-to-have-the-kink-talk-with-your-partner/