General

WannabeBlob:
I had a pipeline of like, attracted exclusively to fat girls -> consuming a lot of weight gain fetish content -> finding myself drawn to first person perspective ones -> projecting myself into any type of content like that -> understanding that the idea of me getting fat was way more core to my sexuality than basically any other factor by my mid-20s. And also like understanding that my fixation on fat people as a teen had evolved into more of a “god I wish that was me” sensation.

It’s caused like relationship friction before since I decided to stop beating around the bush about it. It’s like, yes I’m attracted to you, yes you’re hot. Believe me, I wouldn’t be here if in wasn’t into what you’ve got happening over there. But the fact is you’re gonna get a way more intense response from me by grabbing my rolls, talking up how fat I’m getting, etc.

Jboabfe:
I pretty much transitioned from fa to gainer. It’s been a process since the teen years, but early on was definitely afraid of getting fat, but admired it, enjoyed the pov content, and then tried some soft core stuffing. Been on and off as a gainer ever since then, I love the idea of getting bigger, finding new things that are more difficult, and just in general having more of that softness for myself. Can only admire it for so long before you need more….

Encourager Queer Guy:
I know it's quite common, I am just fascinated by that process and how it happens.
is there a specific incidence that triggers the switch or does it happen over time?
are there signes? is it easy to accept and adapt to the new lifestyle?
is the feeder/FA phase just a form a projection of what will eventually happen?