Stockylove:
I have always been attracted to big people since birth. I feel like my brain is just wired that way, I am programmed to like "big" men. But when it comes to weight gain, I have a bit of an ambiguous relationship with it. I like big men, but I don't like them if they are too big or even obese, because when weight gain becomes too extreme, I know it can lead to serious health problems and even physical disabilities. I am more attracted to men who are similar to big rugby players (big but massive and muscular at the same time). I think there must be ways to gain weight in a healthy way without destroying your health and being athletic at the same time. I think I would feel too guilty if I had force-fed a fed and he found out he had serious health problems because of his weight gain and that I had contributed to it. I like feeding fat guys, and I have done it before. But for me, it should remain an occasional act and not something regular that could make him gain too much weight. I am turned on by men who have full bellies, who burp and who massage their bellies, not by gaining extra pounds. I have read very sordid and disturbing comments on grommr, from feedees who had sexual arousal to destroy their health and become handicapped by their obesity to the point of losing their physical autonomy and becoming dependent on others or their feeders, or comments from feeders who had sexual arousal to make the feedees fat, humiliate them and celebrate their first "heart attacks in the hospital" as if it were a birthday. In any case, weight gain is like all things, you have to know how to dose and be moderate I think. But I prefer not to take that risk. Especially for someone.
Munchies:
I feel like we feeders do not have this conversation enough. It's all about how fat you can make your feedee. Hardly anyone talks about the fear of hurting your feedee or the guilt that comes from a health scare.
I have always been attracted to big people since birth. I feel like my brain is just wired that way, I am programmed to like "big" men. But when it comes to weight gain, I have a bit of an ambiguous relationship with it. I like big men, but I don't like them if they are too big or even obese, because when weight gain becomes too extreme, I know it can lead to serious health problems and even physical disabilities. I am more attracted to men who are similar to big rugby players (big but massive and muscular at the same time). I think there must be ways to gain weight in a healthy way without destroying your health and being athletic at the same time. I think I would feel too guilty if I had force-fed a fed and he found out he had serious health problems because of his weight gain and that I had contributed to it. I like feeding fat guys, and I have done it before. But for me, it should remain an occasional act and not something regular that could make him gain too much weight. I am turned on by men who have full bellies, who burp and who massage their bellies, not by gaining extra pounds. I have read very sordid and disturbing comments on grommr, from feedees who had sexual arousal to destroy their health and become handicapped by their obesity to the point of losing their physical autonomy and becoming dependent on others or their feeders, or comments from feeders who had sexual arousal to make the feedees fat, humiliate them and celebrate their first "heart attacks in the hospital" as if it were a birthday. In any case, weight gain is like all things, you have to know how to dose and be moderate I think. But I prefer not to take that risk. Especially for someone.
Munchies:
I feel like we feeders do not have this conversation enough. It's all about how fat you can make your feedee. Hardly anyone talks about the fear of hurting your feedee or the guilt that comes from a health scare.
Exactly.
2 months
