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Couldn’t agree more! Just because someone prefers a chubby, plump or fat partner doesn’t mean they have a fat fetish. People don’t have a blond fetish or a height fetish or a thin fetish just because they are physically attracted to people in those categories!

Tru, yet when does it cross the line, that turns it into a 'fetish',yet thats just my mind wondering around

I would say, when fat is the only thing that you care about in that person. Kinda like a foot fetish. If feet turn you on but it’s not a fetish, you love and are interested in the person attached to the feet, if it’s just a fetish, the feet is all you care about. So with a fat fetish, you don’t care if the fat person is nice, funny, cute, shared your interests etc. , you just care that they are fat.

This is an interesting read. But one thing that I do have to say is that just because someone has a preference for liking larger people doesn’t necessarily mean that they have a fetish for that.

I known some guys who say that they are into extra curvy women but absolutely DESPISE feedism. Even that YouTuber Curvy Shrine claimed that he was against it when he was still around. So that’s why I kinda think it’s a little misleading.

Me personally, I can totally be fine being in a relationship without having a fetish for my girlfriend to stuff herself… unless that’s something that she wants to do. But does that stop me from loving her and enjoying her curves or chub? Of course not! This is a tricky subject to figure out, but that’s just my current thoughts on the matter right now.

Yep.

I like calling it a "kink" as a "fetish” implies (for me, maybe not for you) that “I need this to become aroused and to acheive a climax.”

A kink to me means i can enjoy a partner who is tiny-tiny, and i will enjoy her flat belly, tiny boobs, her weight of “almost nothing” and you can pick her up and carry her to the bedroom and it's hot and sexy.

I also enjoy a partner who is enormously obese, with beautiful blaps of fat hanging everywhere, someone who is huge and heavy and fills my bed in a most delightful way, and just getting lost in their MASS, so delightful, so sexy and so satisfying. "My big girl!"

I wish it could be more common in other countries

It might be. They just may not be aware of the community.

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I mean, it makes sense. Do you truly believe that there are so few Israeli feedist out there? They more than likely don't know about it.