Extreme obesity

Do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?

Im a lifelong encourager and admirer of the obese form. Thinking about this topic has been obsessively picked apart by my brain for many years while parsing the differences between the fantasy aspects that turn me on vs the reality im willing to live with in a partner.

A lot of feeders or wannabes state they WANT an immobile feedee but they havent processed past the fantasy to realize what that actually means in terms of finance, health and other day to day living, up to and including the struggles of wiping an ass and changing soiled bedding that their partner cant move off of.
I have put the thought into it and the reality is that although i can fantasize a pile of fat on a bed with a feeding tube pumping calories into a body fit for nothing else but storing more fat, it is just that, a fantasy.

I have also had hours of frank discussion with chatters and my growing partner to be sure what i want for them is the same as their goal.

What weve agreed is both a turn on and a realistic goal.
Limitations and restrictions are hot as hell.
Mobility issues are hot as hell.
Crippling obesity is erotic.
Health issues not directly impacting their ability to get out and enjoy life as an obese person is hot.
Broken furniture, clothing issues, finding places with access to use them that accomodate super obese bodies is hot.
95% dependancy on me as a caretaker is hot for both of us.
Toiletting issues and other intimate body care dependency on me to help with or clean up after due to their restricting body mass is erotic and intimate.
So long as they are still somewhat mobile.
2 months

Do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?

Daydreamer:
That's what turns me on the most.


Would you clarify some, please.
2 weeks

Do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?

Only to a degree. I love it when people are too full to move. And waddling because of how fat you are is adorable.

But I'm an athletic person who loves to go on long walks. If you can't keep up with a stroll, I'm taking your ass to the gym.
2 weeks

Do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?

wow, this thread has a long history! my previous response is apparently 4 years ago - so time for some new perspective, i think.

i gained a bunch of weight since my last post and over that time i've experienced some new limitations, and i am also with a new partner, which has changed my perspective, too. i gained up to a top weight of about 475, although i've lost some weight since then (about 450 now).

there are a lot of limitations that have been hot. little things, like being to wide to get close enough to the kitchen counters to reach the upper shelves. i get teased about that regularly, which is kind of hot. smiley

my partner is pretty fit, and the contrast between us is really nice, and her ability to easily dominate me, just by being more flexible and limber than me, is very hot. the limitations it has created in our sex play has actually been very hot, too.

the limitations in standing, walking, not fitting in chairs, and just getting through the day are the nuisance problems which i can live with by i don't enjoy them at all. i've had to lose some weight for health concerns recently, and i am definitely not enjoying the food limitations (mostly missing beer!).
2 weeks

Do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?

Canuck:
wow, this thread has a long history! my previous response is apparently 4 years ago - so time for some new perspective, i think.

i gained a bunch of weight since my last post and over that time i've experienced some new limitations, and i am also with a new partner, which has changed my perspective, too. i gained up to a top weight of about 475, although i've lost some weight since then (about 450 now).

there are a lot of limitations that have been hot. little things, like being to wide to get close enough to the kitchen counters to reach the upper shelves. i get teased about that regularly, which is kind of hot. smiley

my partner is pretty fit, and the contrast between us is really nice, and her ability to easily dominate me, just by being more flexible and limber than me, is very hot. the limitations it has created in our sex play has actually been very hot, too.

the limitations in standing, walking, not fitting in chairs, and just getting through the day are the nuisance problems which i can live with by i don't enjoy them at all. i've had to lose some weight for health concerns recently, and i am definitely not enjoying the food limitations (mostly missing beer!).


When it comes to health issues and physical limitations, I think there's a bit of a disconnect between fantasy and reality. Sure, it's sexy to be too fat to move normally. But that's also really inconvenient.
2 weeks

Do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?

Canuck:
wow, this thread has a long history! my previous response is apparently 4 years ago - so time for some new perspective, i think.

i gained a bunch of weight since my last post and over that time i've experienced some new limitations, and i am also with a new partner, which has changed my perspective, too. i gained up to a top weight of about 475, although i've lost some weight since then (about 450 now).

there are a lot of limitations that have been hot. little things, like being to wide to get close enough to the kitchen counters to reach the upper shelves. i get teased about that regularly, which is kind of hot. smiley

my partner is pretty fit, and the contrast between us is really nice, and her ability to easily dominate me, just by being more flexible and limber than me, is very hot. the limitations it has created in our sex play has actually been very hot, too.

the limitations in standing, walking, not fitting in chairs, and just getting through the day are the nuisance problems which i can live with by i don't enjoy them at all. i've had to lose some weight for health concerns recently, and i am definitely not enjoying the food limitations (mostly missing beer!).

Munchies:
When it comes to health issues and physical limitations, I think there's a bit of a disconnect between fantasy and reality. Sure, it's sexy to be too fat to move normally. But that's also really inconvenient.


Yeah, not to mentioned the fact that it could be really problematic if your partner let’s say leaving you or something, then what would you do?
2 weeks

Do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?

Canuck:
wow, this thread has a long history! my previous response is apparently 4 years ago - so time for some new perspective, i think.

i gained a bunch of weight since my last post and over that time i've experienced some new limitations, and i am also with a new partner, which has changed my perspective, too. i gained up to a top weight of about 475, although i've lost some weight since then (about 450 now).

there are a lot of limitations that have been hot. little things, like being to wide to get close enough to the kitchen counters to reach the upper shelves. i get teased about that regularly, which is kind of hot. smiley

my partner is pretty fit, and the contrast between us is really nice, and her ability to easily dominate me, just by being more flexible and limber than me, is very hot. the limitations it has created in our sex play has actually been very hot, too.

the limitations in standing, walking, not fitting in chairs, and just getting through the day are the nuisance problems which i can live with by i don't enjoy them at all. i've had to lose some weight for health concerns recently, and i am definitely not enjoying the food limitations (mostly missing beer!).

Munchies:
When it comes to health issues and physical limitations, I think there's a bit of a disconnect between fantasy and reality. Sure, it's sexy to be too fat to move normally. But that's also really inconvenient.

MottiF:
Yeah, not to mentioned the fact that it could be really problematic if your partner let’s say leaving you or something, then what would you do?


Not just that. Illness, job loss, death ... the list is long.

Hell, these past due months has seen an uptick in natural disasters, war, and terrorism. Not saying people need to live in fear. Just be aware that things can go tits up without any notice, and you need to be prepared
2 weeks

Do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?

Canuck:
wow, this thread has a long history! my previous response is apparently 4 years ago - so time for some new perspective, i think.

i gained a bunch of weight since my last post and over that time i've experienced some new limitations, and i am also with a new partner, which has changed my perspective, too. i gained up to a top weight of about 475, although i've lost some weight since then (about 450 now).

there are a lot of limitations that have been hot. little things, like being to wide to get close enough to the kitchen counters to reach the upper shelves. i get teased about that regularly, which is kind of hot. smiley

my partner is pretty fit, and the contrast between us is really nice, and her ability to easily dominate me, just by being more flexible and limber than me, is very hot. the limitations it has created in our sex play has actually been very hot, too.

the limitations in standing, walking, not fitting in chairs, and just getting through the day are the nuisance problems which i can live with by i don't enjoy them at all. i've had to lose some weight for health concerns recently, and i am definitely not enjoying the food limitations (mostly missing beer!).

Munchies:
When it comes to health issues and physical limitations, I think there's a bit of a disconnect between fantasy and reality. Sure, it's sexy to be too fat to move normally. But that's also really inconvenient.

MottiF:
Yeah, not to mentioned the fact that it could be really problematic if your partner let’s say leaving you or something, then what would you do?

Munchies:
Not just that. Illness, job loss, death ... the list is long.

Hell, these past due months has seen an uptick in natural disasters, war, and terrorism. Not saying people need to live in fear. Just be aware that things can go tits up without any notice, and you need to be prepared

Indeed
2 weeks

Do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?

Munchies:
When it comes to health issues and physical limitations, I think there's a bit of a disconnect between fantasy and reality. Sure, it's sexy to be too fat to move normally. But that's also really inconvenient.[/quote]


I agree. I am quite turned on by inconveniences, but immobility is a fantasy only. I do enjoy the occasional hedonistic weekend where I pretty much stay in bed or on the sofa in a state of gluttonous laziness, but it‘s like a treat as opposed to a permanent reality.
2 weeks

Do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?

You don’t realize when immobility comes through as you get there gradually. And when you get there one day, when you realize that your life is more functional with the use of a wheelchair or a scooter it’s probably too late to go back. My woman was perfectly mobile at 400 lbs but as she has gradually gained to her current 588, her mobility got more and more difficult even within the house. It worries her but we both enjoy so much the consequences of letting go
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