Feeder/Feedee

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Like every other one that comes here to complain about the same damn thing:

1) you have no profile content or activity outside of you complaining about women and not getting what you want sexually and sound aghast at the prospect of having to pay for content that YOU want

2) you clearly "come and go" from these places, thus never establishing connection and mutual presence in the community you expect "realness" (or whatever) from - people who ARE sincerely connected and active here see that as a red flag

3) "All the women" excuse me? Okay, then: all men here don't value fat women as actual people and see them only as a means to their orgasmic end and don't understand the material, social, financial, and medical impact that gaining has on them, nor believes they deserve to be compensated for those things. That is to say, clearly, you then agree that it's okay to lambast all the men here as seeing all the women as just sexual objects without any humanity.

Clear that up for ya?

You get out what you put in - and I don't mean your dick.

I am so confused. Your profile says you are happily taken. Of course the only feedees that will give you the time of day are the ones that want something from you.

Does your gf know you have an account? Because this screams cheating.

I am actually interested in a relationship but I can’t hook someone. XD

Too many online feedees that don't ever want to meet up. Cashapp, paypal, curvage, fansly, onlyfans and manyvids get thrown around too much. Only online feedees are fake to me. They would meet up with someone for a date but don't want to meet up to do something with this kink? Too many fakes and scammers everywhere.

Once again:

1) no pictures

2) only activity is to complain about feedees or act entitled to their time

3) "banned from feabie for no reason" - there is always a reason

Fat people don't owe you anything. You get out what you put in. You are the scammer by treating feedees as disposable and objects to which you feel entitled.

EXACTLYYY. This whole thread just screams sexually frustrated. The amount of people that just expect free content or just immediately jump to trying to meet up really don't understand a woman's pov. Obviously nobody wants to be scammed, or worse taken advantage of, so why would anyone ever put themselves in a position to meet up with somebody like that? Like it works the other way around too and a lot of men forget that shit. I was a feeder for a good bit and still love to every once in awhile. all of the times I've done shit like this, online or irl, I bought them food. Haven't had a problem yet. Do you know how many times I've heard about feedees being scammed or much worse by people with that attitude? It's sad. They never get it either.

It's not sexual frustration; that would "justify" their behavior and imply that they are not responsible for their actions, which is not the case. There are plenty of people here who are sexually frustrated and choose not to blame everyone else for it or behave in the ways I mentioned.



Because women aren't people to them. It's that simple. Their behavior wouldn't be like this if they had a shred of empathy for anyone besides themselves.



I understand what you are trying to get at, because of course it sucks to be ripped off and it's not their fault it happens. However, having money scammed from you is not equivalent to the dehumanization people experience here in the ways I described. At the end of the day, the money cannot be scammed (or even stolen) without someone choosing to provide information for it. It can even be restored in many (not all) cases depending on your financial institution. Of course it can cause distress and mistrust, but it can be restored.

What these people do to feedees instead takes away something that cannot be quantified or restored; they know this, that they can get away with it, that is exactly why they treat fat people the way they do.



Exactly! It's almost like there's a common denominator, and the first one is simply whether or not they view fat people as people first.

It's not sexual frustration; that would "justify" their behavior and imply that they are not responsible for their actions, which is not the case. There are plenty of people here who are sexually frustrated and choose not to blame everyone else for it or behave in the ways I mentioned.



Because women aren't people to them. It's that simple. Their behavior wouldn't be like this if they had a shred of empathy for anyone besides themselves.



I understand what you are trying to get at, because of course it sucks to be ripped off and it's not their fault it happens. However, having money scammed from you is not equivalent to the dehumanization people experience here in the ways I described. At the end of the day, the money cannot be scammed (or even stolen) without someone choosing to provide information for it. It can even be restored in many (not all) cases depending on your financial institution. Of course it can cause distress and mistrust, but it can be restored.

What these people do to feedees instead takes away something that cannot be quantified or restored; they know this, that they can get away with it, that is exactly why they treat fat people the way they do.



Good points! Sorry if anything came off the wrong way. Just tryna let them know they suck. You did that a lot better than I could 😭

No worries! They already know they suck. The insecurity shown by people who behave that way is evident; that's *why* they treat people this way (in a very broad sense, people who feel bad about themselves will treat others in a way to inspire the same feelings in them, aka "hurt people hurt people".

When I comment on these posts, it's not for the OPs/bad actors, it's to set an example for those who are sincerely open to change, who need to see advocacy in action, and to just speak up about it. My goal is never to convince the bad actors of anything, it's just to point out "your behavior is gross and this is why" so others can learn to identify it for themselves.

No better way to put it!