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Meh...i mean its not overly common. From my own personal opinion, i find its either bigger people because then its like they dont have to hide how much they eat/how big they are if they are with someone as big as them or people who genuienly like bigger men because of their stature. Either way, ive not had negative comments from friends or women where ive gained ALOT of weight recently, quite the opposite! I have one friend that genuinely says "Im a feeder" but i dont think she means it in the sense of the community lol

I don’t know about other women but for me it’s more about the person. If they are bigger then that’s fine. I just want them to be healthy if I’m in a relationship with them. Before I had a boyfriend and I was just having little flings I was down to hook up with bigger guys. Bigger meaning like how Jason Siegel is or Chris Pratt in parks and rec. not huge but just a little extra. It was cute to see how their tummy would spill over their waistband. It was even better if they were comfortable with me grabbing it or talking about it. If they ate a lot I got to play with it and they would talk about how tight their pants were. It was exciting. But I hung out with them cause they were cool. I liked the person. I liked their smell and voice. And obviously I just liked being around them and yes they knew how to get me off. But yeah it doesn’t mean I’m exclusively into big guys. I love my boyfriend and I love his body, he’s in amazing shape and I find it hot. I do not have any desire for him to gain. I don’t particularly think a lot of fluff would look good on him also I don’t think he would be happy that way. He knows about this and is happy to learn to talk dirty to me about it or he’s open to me teaching him how to do that. I’m very uncomfortable with it. But yeah it’s not on him. I just feel silly telling him to talk about ill fitting clothes or weight gain. But yeah for me it was with some people I enjoyed whatever place they were at and enjoyed any novelty that happened. As in if they got fatter it was fun to play with. I didn’t cause it and it was never intentional. But it was kinda fun. But yeah I think most people are just concerned about health. At least I am. I don’t want my partner to die early or have health problems lose mobility or lose their vitality and virility, strength is hot. I tended to go for strong big guys. But yeah my boyfriend is not that much taller than me. Not fond of that part. But he’s super strong. He’s hot in a conventional sense too. I love him for him though. So it mainly depends on if they like you. I never intended to go after bigger guys. It just kinda happened that way. The ones whose personalities I liked and where I liked their smell and voice and how they were with me were bigger guys. That’s it. The fetish this is a separate thing for me.

We fat-admiring women are 100% present, but honestly so many of us get chased off these platforms because one too many men get aggressive or entitled, stalk them, etc. It doesn’t have to be that many to become overwhelming quickly. That part sucks, and it’s part of a larger problem with how culture treats us generally.
My mantra is “keep your approach soft and your bellies softer”

LOVE the advice! Definitely represents my agenda

So true. Of all the partners and playmates I've had, they earned the priviledge of my attention by not being a creep or ass.

I generally take the approach women are complicated, food is not, I’d rather be eating tbh. Outside of fun interactions here and there I mostly keep to myself. The odds are very very slim there’s a local feeder in my area, like probably astronomical. And I feel like feeder or someone down with fatties are kinda my only bet bc of my size at this point. Maybe a few years ago it would have been different, which it was.

Eh, women are not complicated. Like, more power to you if you don't wanna be in a relationship. Love that for you. But women are not complicated.

Oh for sure and it’s not all women just in my experience particular women have been