Fat experiences

Losing control

Avatar
RoundRosy   United States
Joined 3 years
I feel I’m on the cusp of losing control and not sure what will happen next. . Last month crossed 250 at 5’4 and some days it makes me nervous. Never crossed 200 before Covid months thanks to diet pills etc. once I got that close. … and especially after years of family “ concern” about me getting so heavy. Now my husband has openly admitted how much he loves my gain and has been more actively encouraging it… Last night ordered second take home dessert for me behind my back and although I pretended to be dismayed, I ate it on the way home. I don’t want to go back to the old days either…. and I love how much softer and rounder I feel….
3 years

Losing control

Avatar
Munchies   United States
Joined 4 years
RoundRosy:
I feel I’m on the cusp of losing control and not sure what will happen next. . Last month crossed 250 at 5’4 and some days it makes me nervous. Never crossed 200 before Covid months thanks to diet pills etc. once I got that close. … and especially after years of family “ concern” about me getting so heavy. Now my husband has openly admitted how much he loves my gain and has been more actively encouraging it… Last night ordered second take home dessert for me behind my back and although I pretended to be dismayed, I ate it on the way home. I don’t want to go back to the old days either…. and I love how much softer and rounder I feel….


I'd discuss this with your husband. Let him know what your fears and thoughts are so you two can find a way to practice feedism in a way that makes you both happy.
3 years

Losing control

Avatar
RoundRosy   United States
Joined 3 years
Thanks. Have had a chat with my husband …. So he now plans to surprise me with extra treats no more than 3-4 times a month. Found an extra quart of my favorite ice cream last week… fine by me!
3 years

Losing control

Avatar
The Donut King   United States
Joined 23 years
Fivepointno:
You have also multiplied your fat cells so it’s tough to slow down once you start

Getobese:
YES SO TRUE…taguenutrition.com/fat-cells-battleground-unwanted-weight-gain/[/quote]

It doesn't load, but the extra fat cells are definitely present here. Lol
1 year

Losing control

Avatar
MottiF   Israel
Joined 9 years
Ditzy:
I know the feeling and I too fear losing control again.
There is a point where doing simple things becomes difficult because you are so fat.
People with a fantasy that are around you most of the time fail to see that as a problem.

Feedmesqueezeme:
Thanks and yeah, that’s what I’m worried about. I really enjoy feedism but the thought of losing control and being unable to do certain things is worrying. I have spoken to my partner though about this and we are just trying to enjoy it but not full time


I would be open about it with your partner. Feedism is all about agreement. Let him know about your concerns. While getting fat could be fun at first, it’s not very good to lose control, better share your feelings. Things are becoming very hard and difficult once you pass a certain level of fatness.
1 year

Losing control

Avatar
HappyBigBelly   United States
Joined 13 years
True that FAs and active fat encouragers have to keep their SO’s overall comfort and mobility in mind.

My wife is about 330/340 pounds and sexy as heck, but she maintains her numbers where they are. Gaining up to 400 would probably be a snap, but mobility would be that much harder.
1 year

Losing control

Avatar
Munchies   United States
Joined 4 years
HappyBigBelly:
True that FAs and active fat encouragers have to keep their SO’s overall comfort and mobility in mind.

My wife is about 330/340 pounds and sexy as heck, but she maintains her numbers where they are. Gaining up to 400 would probably be a snap, but mobility would be that much harder.


A lot of people forget that height has a lot to do with how big you can get and still move around. If you are 6' and up, you can make it is 400 and still be mostly mobile. But if you are short, you are not going to be so fortunate.
1 year

Losing control

Avatar
HappyBigBelly   United States
Joined 13 years
HappyBigBelly:
True that FAs and active fat encouragers have to keep their SO’s overall comfort and mobility in mind.

My wife is about 330/340 pounds and sexy as heck, but she maintains her numbers where they are. Gaining up to 400 would probably be a snap, but mobility would be that much harder.

Munchies:
A lot of people forget that height has a lot to do with how big you can get and still move around. If you are 6' and up, you can make it is 400 and still be mostly mobile. But if you are short, you are not going to be so fortunate.


True indeed. She’s just 5-3, so it’s a lot to carry around.
1 year
12