Gaining

Is anyone here into mutual gaining? In my opinion at least, I am surprised that it seems to not be a more common kink. Not only could I imagine it to be extremely hot with both partners having a lot of fat to rub against each other for one, but would also be a lot more personal and intimate as both people, at least physically, would have something more in common.

Not to say there is anything wrong with feeder/feedee relationships where one partner is really fat (mostly women) and one is small or thin (mostly men), but it seems to me that it is way more common than mutual gaining to the point where there is almost a bit of fatigue.

On sites like Deviantart, for example, there always seems to be a lot more representation for just larger women than for larger men and heterosexual mutual gaining as a whole. Whenever I do search’s for mutual gaining it always seems like I still see some of the same art prices that I have also seen months prior with only like one or two new things every once in awhile.

Again, I am not really saying there is anything inherently wrong with that, I am just saying that as my own personal observation. I wonder if it is something cultural or neurological where society in general finds larger women more appealing than larger men. I also know that mutual gaining would not be considered the most practical as one partner would most likely need to be more physically fit in order to help sustain their significant other’s more unhealthy, less active lifestyle.

Though I don’t know? I have heard about some people making mutual gaining relationships work out somehow. Maybe it just depends on their living and monetary situation. And plus, I have never lived a mutual gaining relationship so I am not going to act as if I know anything of how it all feels or works out in the long or short run. I would like to at least try it some day which is why I made this post.

I mean, the bulk of the people posting on DA are straight men - often feeders. If you want to enjoy content featuring anything else, Tumblr and AO3 are your best bet.

Maybe it’s because there’s way too much male feedees, and not many female feeders are into mutual gaining

Those are unrelated things. Most feedees are not interested in being feeders and vice versa - regardless of gender.

I know that, as a female feeder, if anyone suggested that I should be a mutual gainer, they are getting laughed out the door.

But you also have to look at the demographics of those writing the stories. Most of them are male feeders followed by female feedees. Both groups are overwhelmingly interested in female weight gain stories.

This is not to say there's no representation of the other groups. It's just the bulk of them are not on FF or DA. As I said, your best bet is Tumblr and Archive of Our Own (AO3). The authors tend to be primarily women and queer people. So, there tend to be more diverse stories.

When it comes to wg fiction, I find mutual gain stories to be very erotic. I am about 80% through writing a story based on what I observed at a job assignment in the south. It’s about a slim young couple out of college and the husband gets a job in the south. They are deluged with southern hospitality and southern cooking. One day the wife confesses to her neighbor that she has put on a few pounds.

The neighbor says, honey look around and proceeds to tell her how the men are all well fed and the ladies are pleasantly plump. After a year, the husband is sporting a big ole beer belly and the wife has gone from size 4 to size 10 verging on 12.

This sounds perfect, can’t wait till it is finished!

That’s a story I’d want to continue reading 👍

I can post the first two chapters but have to get writing the final chapter. It’s only in my head now.