i met a FFA off another site and we got to know each over time, me overeating and gaining weight and her being shocked, surprised and delighted when I would send her her favorite video "Man tries to pull down t-shirt and it keeps popping up because he's so fat."
Point being we got to know each other over MONTHS. There was no big rush. Because when all you talk about is how fat you are or want to get don't you want to see me gain 100 pounds, it gets as old as when an FA meets a SSBBW and all he does is talk about how hot she is.
A feeder/feedee relationship is deeper than any other relationship you have, in its way.
When I finally flew to meet her, I wore a jacket over a too-small t-shirt, about 6 inches of fluff hanging over. When we met we hugged right away and then I opened my coat and she almost dropped dead! She was so delighted. "Wow! My God! Turn to the side..."
Good luck, you are at the very beginning but the greatest things can happen!
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