General

Spoilsandriches:
I think that all communities die. When there are more people, there's more grifters, bots and scammers. When the percentage of the community that has bad intentions gets too high, everyone leaves.

Spoilsandriches:
I think that all communities die. When there are more people, there's more grifters, bots and scammers. When the percentage of the community that has bad intentions gets too high, everyone leaves.

Morbidly A Beast:
There’s something to consider and that’s the dead internet theory. And while it might apply to bigger platforms it’s important to consider. Could a person you’re talking to be an ai

Spoilsandriches:
I think that all communities die. When there are more people, there's more grifters, bots and scammers. When the percentage of the community that has bad intentions gets too high, everyone leaves.

Morbidly A Beast:
There’s something to consider and that’s the dead internet theory. And while it might apply to bigger platforms it’s important to consider. Could a person you’re talking to be an ai

Spoilsandriches:
That's the reason I don't use Facebook. My feed is just ai posts and there's no setting to get rid of it.

Masuli:
I can relate to that feeling alone on the site or outsider. Mostly this because of location + being older. I have been here so long.

On location wise this fetish seems to be quite rare and this makes tricky to find people to talk with.

Also being a male feedee, gainer that is looking for a feeder makes things harder.

I don't think that you are being autistic. I think sometimes we all feel being an outsider or not fitting in. My advice would be trying enjoy your own company, then you are never going to feel like being alone in the world.

Kitsune:
Thank you for the advice. Currently my life is overwhelming so I have the urge to talk to someone. I rarely go out very often and my online friends are either not online when I have those midlife crisis or I am afraid to bother them. Retail therapy used to be my dopamine to help cope but lately I am trying to save up for college so that's out the door. I still have urges to purchase something though.

JN_TumLover56:
Hey there, I can definitely feel for what you are coming from. For me I have always had such a difficult time fitting into a community and finding the right people where I can see myself thrive along. Perhaps maybe it’s because of me being autistic and don’t think like 90% of people might have something to do with it as well.

As of with this site itself, I keep on coming back because while it’s not perfect it also gives me a sense of security and acceptance. Whether or not you have a fetish or just have a preference in liking people on the bigger side. This is especially when it comes to the outside world that wants to villainize people like us and eradicate chubby people. I know that I haven’t really felt very welcomed by some people on this site, but somehow I would rather be here than anywhere else!

But hey what I try to keep on racing and try to be true to myself. It’s not always easy, but it’s better than sitting around wishing I knew.

Kitsune:
Sorry for the late reply but I am glad to hear I am not the only one! Your experience resonates with me.