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The heaviest person I’ve dated was nearly 300 lbs. I was only about 170 at the time and it opened my eyes to how it might be to be bigger. We broke up a while back. Crazy to think I’m nearly as big as her now ☺️

Dated: my current True Love, in the mid 300s of pounds, roughly 5 1/2' height. Very exciting to feel her small/average skeletal structure with so many soft subcutaneous fat layers piles atop nearly all over, plus strong leg muscles from a lifetime of being an extreme athlete bearing all that fat weight. She’s currently near her lifetime peak weight.

Met: a lovely woman from Canada at the recent Las Vegas BBW Bash (Brie’s). Pear-shaped approximately like Big Cutie Sadie Summers, but significantly larger. Beautiful, intelligent, and if i wasn’t in a monogamy agreement with my True Love and if this woman had shown interest, i might have tried for a deeper connection. Moves around well on her own without aids, and somehow manages to use one typical chair when by width she could easily fill 3 or more.

Come to think of it, there were other women of different shapes though her size/volume at Fatsgiving 2019 whom i met and hugged.

Seen live but did not meet (and memorable enough for me to recall here and now): absolutely huge woman at a Ross clothing store here in Pasadena California, maybe in the late 2000s? I was amazed she could walk, but she did so just fine. Had to wonder why she was there, since i can’t imagine anything would fit her. Might have been accompanying her friend, or shopping for accessories. I have no way of knowing, but semi-educated guess would be nearing 300 kg/mid 600 pound range, and possibly higher.

I hung out with a couple guys at different times who weighed around 550 lbs at the time. Still looking to meet someone much bigger.

380. Meet some one on feabie that was near by after a bad break up. Was the only time because she creaped me the fuck out!!

probably my ex-gf. she was about 450 lbs at that time, i was 150 or 160... she gained weight while we were together, but then started to lose.

the funny thing is now, all these years later, i am nearly as big as she was... and she is probably down to 200 lbs now!

Not dated but was a "summer friend". I went to the US for vacation and I met a girl in the local Target. She was looking in her early 30s and was using a scooter because she was massive. Probably in her 500lbs or more. I was trying to get some ingredients to cook at the AirBnB and she asked me for help to get something in the upper shelf. She started recommending brands and cereal flavors that I should definitely try, probably bc she noticed I was lost and definitely not American, so my intrusive thoughts were "oh, she definitely a foodie or a feedee".

I saw her again a couple times, never caught her name, much less added her in socials or similar, but my intuition tells me that she is probably gaining.

Oh and I saw a guy, probably in his 500lbs during a ren faire, he was handsome and I deeply regret not talking to him or give my number or smth, I was too scared to ask and I was with my friend group.

I have a 800 pound friend that I met two years ago while going to a program. She’s the biggest person I’ve ever seen in real life. Sadly, she lives a few hours away so I don’t see her anymore, but we still talk every other day.

600 pounds

My wife is around 350 lbs, 5'3".

Though I love/need the gaining process, when I was single I made a conscious decision to only date people who were already at a size I could be attracted to, and confident about it. Had bad experiences with anything else.

She was 275ish when we met. It was around the upper bound of what I thought I preferred. She completely unintentionally has put on 75 lbs in our time together though. (perhaps has something to do with the exact same amount of weight that I put on, lol).

Never thought I'd be with someone this big, though every day is fun new things to explore. The average body type that I seek out online etc has trended upward as her weight has, which is kinda crazy. And it's given me a lot of confidence in my own gain too, not for nothing.

You know? I honestly couldn’t tell you because I’ve dated so many big people that I couldn't keep track of their weights even if I wanted too.

But if I had to guess,

The heaviest woman that I’ve dated was around 315lbs. And the heaviest man I’ve dated was probably around 320lbs-350lbs.