Fattening others

This maybe true, but not always the case because some of the last few women that I had dated were able to tolerate (and some relieved) when I told them I have a preference in liking bigger women. Especially ones that have bellies. While they are willing to put up with this part of me, when it comes to losing weight there’s definitely going to need to be some discussion on figuring out the nuance in order for a relationship to develop into something… Of course that’s only when that matter of discussion comes around.

Now as far as my experience goes, most of the women would NOT be interested in intentionally gaining weight. Sure if they are a foodie then that’s one thing, and if you’re happy with it then leave it at that. But when it comes to the fetish itself, this is going to go down by whether or not you can live in a relationship without it.

Now I’ve had plenty of relationships in the past where I didn’t even had the fetish brought up. But still had some encouragement and teasing here and there but that’s just innocent stuff. Nothing too serious or made it very obvious.

Of course every girl that you date is gonna be different. And it really depends on how they would react if you wanted to bring in this fetish to the relationship or not. But at least communicate and talk about it, because that’s the most important thing in any relationship!

Two things can be true at once. I’ve experienced both of what you too described.
They are relieved that I prefer bigger women. But they are still self conscious of their belly in particular and are always saying they want to lose weight. Even if they’re actions aka eating habits and lack of exercise says otherwise.

That’s literally why I’m here, cause this communities like this are about the only chance I have to find a woman that literally desires a big belly. It’s hard out here in these streets 😂😂😂

In my case, feeding has never been a dealbreaker for me. But I usually manage to bring it up, in a casual way that makes it clear it's not a dealbreaker.

Usually women will say something about their weight. I say "I'm fine with your weight. In fact, I like a few curves. You could even put ON some weight."

Then see where the conversation goes from there.

In my experience, this kind of soft sell is the best way to do it.

If they're curious, that's cool. I'd they aren't, that's cool too. I'm not trying to force some body to do something they don't want to.