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L was well over 400 pounds. What a little ball of butter! Loved cuddling with her, squeezing her, loving her. She was so BIG! Goodness! A sweet little tub! We're still friends. We met here, actually!

Dated a few pounds shy of 400lbs

Met in person- Over 600lbs

My wife is the same height and about 320-340 at any given time. And I share all your observations on the ideal type :-)

Serious dating - 400
Very brief experiences in person (over long distance) - 530
Met in person through the community - About 600

Heaviest woman I dated was in the 350 range. The sex was incredible for both of us but she absolutely hated being fat. At least the handful of encounters we shared helped me affirm my preference.

My wife is around 320 these days.

I also know a couple women in the 400+ lb range, both in their 40s but with different physiques. One is active, but the other really struggles to get around.

Dated? Just shy of 400. It didn't work out because she went back to her "boy friend". We met at a size positive club. She was in a weird spot relationship wise. She had been with a guy for over five years and he decided he wanted an open relationship. She didn't. We dated for about a month. She was an awesome lady and I was down for more but I always got this feeling she was "waiting" for something else.

Eventually, she told me she and her ex had reconciled and were planning to get back together but we could continue to date. I wasn't interested in that sort of thing so I broke it off.

As for the largest I've "known"? 600+. Former dimensions magazine model easily 25+ years my senior. We chatted over forum messages and she happened to be in town on a lay over on her way to a bash. Don't think I'd be down for that sort of partner long term but it was interesting to fly close enough to the sun that the wax on my wings melted.

500lbs woman
she was amazing and allowed me to do things and show her all the things you can do to a fat woman

I have meet a few people, club members, one I think was 600, one was at least 700. All have lost weight so we are about the same these days.

I meet on a date a lady some 15 years ago, she was about 30 and was truly huge, easy 650 but only 5 foot 8. We did not click, then saw her two years late at the shops, I was like floored, she was easy 700 plus, and was so round.

In New Zealand I saw an indigenous lady, about 25 and easy 6 foot plus, but also huge, easy 800 her filled the room literally.

respect dude

450lbs