Fattening others

Gentle teasing & encouragement?

Hello. I learned recently that my partner and I are interested in feedism and mutual gaining. I'm familiar with BDSM dynamics, but I've never explored feeding as a fetish until now. I've been lurking in feed spaces for a bit now, but I can't seem to find any answers for this specifically.

I've found that the suggestions I get for things to say are too degrading or livestock-related for our dynamic. As someone who struggled with disordered eating, they react better to softer and sweeter phrases, such as "Look at how much you've let yourself go, I'm so proud," and "You're getting so nice and full for me!", for example.

If you're a feedee/mutual gainer/someone who generally likes to be fed, what kind of things do you like?
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