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Self-pleasure using toys with a larger body (advice)

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If you have trouble reaching your genitalia during self-pleasure there are many great toy options that can make things easier and more fun. Hoping to spread some knowledge from my own training and education since this stuff isn't often talked about for fat bodies.

Wands - Pretty obvious one, having a long handle with heavy vibration at the end can offer many great sensory options. There are several brands that offer Wands with a curved handle which is perfect for reaching around your belly.

Controller toys - We've got variety here. From anal/prostate play to panty vibes to hands-free vibes. All of these categories offer products that can be controlled from an included remote or even an app on your phone. Big recommendation here is We-Vibe. They offer all of these toy categories which can be controlled from a single app. Big selling point here is that you can sync multiple toys under the same vibrations.

Straddling vibes - If you enjoy the feeling of straddling, but don't always want the feeling of insertion then you're in luck. Multiple companies are offering heavy duty straddling pads of varying heights and grooves. Strong vibrations, often with multiple motors inside each peak.

"Fuck machines" - This refers to any toys that offer self-propelling thrusting. This could be something handheld or a full 4-armed rig. A recommendation from me based off of what I've seen is it's better to purchase one that has a suction pad. The ones with a built in dildo will often bend at the connector when meeting any resistance which is often the case with larger thighs. The suction pad makes it much more versatile too! You can attach any dildos or vibrators with a suction base, and you can even attach masturbators with a suction base.

Have some good clean fun out there smiley
1 week

Self-pleasure using toys with a larger body (advice)

BigBoyGinger:
Sorry if this isn't the location for this topic.

If you have trouble reaching your genitalia during self-pleasure there are many great toy options that can make things easier and more fun. Hoping to spread some knowledge from my own training and education since this stuff isn't often talked about for fat bodies.

Wands - Pretty obvious one, having a long handle with heavy vibration at the end can offer many great sensory options. There are several brands that offer Wands with a curved handle which is perfect for reaching around your belly.

Controller toys - We've got variety here. From anal/prostate play to panty vibes to hands-free vibes. All of these categories offer products that can be controlled from an included remote or even an app on your phone. Big recommendation here is We-Vibe. They offer all of these toy categories which can be controlled from a single app. Big selling point here is that you can sync multiple toys under the same vibrations.

Straddling vibes - If you enjoy the feeling of straddling, but don't always want the feeling of insertion then you're in luck. Multiple companies are offering heavy duty straddling pads of varying heights and grooves. Strong vibrations, often with multiple motors inside each peak.

"Fuck machines" - This refers to any toys that offer self-propelling thrusting. This could be something handheld or a full 4-armed rig. A recommendation from me based off of what I've seen is it's better to purchase one that has a suction pad. The ones with a built in dildo will often bend at the connector when meeting any resistance which is often the case with larger thighs. The suction pad makes it much more versatile too! You can attach any dildos or vibrators with a suction base, and you can even attach masturbators with a suction base.

Have some good clean fun out there smiley


I'd also take a look at disability-friendly sex toys. You'd be shocked by how many options there are for various things.

I've even seen some dildo extension handles of varying lengths to use with pre-existing toys. So, if there's a toy you love, you may not have to give it up when you reach a certain size.
1 week

Self-pleasure using toys with a larger body (advice)

BigBoyGinger:
Sorry if this isn't the location for this topic.

If you have trouble reaching your genitalia during self-pleasure there are many great toy options that can make things easier and more fun. Hoping to spread some knowledge from my own training and education since this stuff isn't often talked about for fat bodies.

Wands - Pretty obvious one, having a long handle with heavy vibration at the end can offer many great sensory options. There are several brands that offer Wands with a curved handle which is perfect for reaching around your belly.

Controller toys - We've got variety here. From anal/prostate play to panty vibes to hands-free vibes. All of these categories offer products that can be controlled from an included remote or even an app on your phone. Big recommendation here is We-Vibe. They offer all of these toy categories which can be controlled from a single app. Big selling point here is that you can sync multiple toys under the same vibrations.

Straddling vibes - If you enjoy the feeling of straddling, but don't always want the feeling of insertion then you're in luck. Multiple companies are offering heavy duty straddling pads of varying heights and grooves. Strong vibrations, often with multiple motors inside each peak.

"Fuck machines" - This refers to any toys that offer self-propelling thrusting. This could be something handheld or a full 4-armed rig. A recommendation from me based off of what I've seen is it's better to purchase one that has a suction pad. The ones with a built in dildo will often bend at the connector when meeting any resistance which is often the case with larger thighs. The suction pad makes it much more versatile too! You can attach any dildos or vibrators with a suction base, and you can even attach masturbators with a suction base.

Have some good clean fun out there smiley

Munchies:
I'd also take a look at disability-friendly sex toys. You'd be shocked by how many options there are for various things.

I've even seen some dildo extension handles of varying lengths to use with pre-existing toys. So, if there's a toy you love, you may not have to give it up when you reach a certain size.


These are also great tips! smiley
1 week

Self-pleasure using toys with a larger body (advice)

Another thing, If you want to use strap-ons but the strap sides dig too much into rolls:

Sleeve Harnesses: I forget the actual name for these but you can wear them around your thighs. Great for thigh grinding but also a great option for people with limited mobility to wear.

Panty Harnesses: It's what it says on the can. It's a harness for strap-ons but a panty!

Strapless strap-ons: These are interesting! Like a double-ended dildo you put one smaller side into your own genitalia, and the other end is a proper strap-on. You can often find ones with extra thumping and vibrating features for the wearer.

Have a healthy and fun time out there! smiley
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Self-pleasure using toys with a larger body (advice)

I'll gladly answer questions to the best of my ability too, but please no unwarrented advances.

I truly want to spread the knowledge in a space often left out of general conversation.

(Why not create a blog? Tbh I have Bipolar and lack the consistency for any serious blogging endeavors. I mainly share information in ways I find helpful)
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