Fat experiences

So like, to preface, I’ve never hidden my partners from my fam and I’m sure my fam can kinda tell I have a type. My family however doesn’t know that I intentionally gained 140 pounds for fetish reasons. Lmao I learned from my girlfriend that my ex told my sister in law (bro’s wife). I’m not like upset, however I’m mildly embarrassed about it. There’s only two things in life that can embarrass me and my folks knowing that is one. 😅

Thankfully she’s cool about it, but like she’s the sister I never knew I wanted and we’re total partners in crime. I’m also 1000% lucky to have my girlfriend in my life who is also very open and welcoming of my kinks, so long as I’m healthy (actually have been losing weight for health reasons). However I still kinda wanna crawl in a hole and disappear 😂😂😂

Anyone else have anything similar so I don’t feel like the only one in this boat? Lol

Sending you positive vibes.

That seriously sucks. Why/ how did she do it?

On a side note, seriously and respectfully lolling at your situation. Like it's so embarrassing but also pretty funny.

Gonna make Thanksgiving awkward af from now on lol.

I have no idea why, but this is the same woman that threw my own stuff at me when I went to break things off w her. She probably thought she was gonna get back at me for leaving when we just weren’t compatible.

But yes tbh it’s pretty funny. Like of all people in my fam to find out I’m fine with it being her. She lets me pick out her smut books to read so it’s not the worst she’s ever seen I’m sure lmfao

As for thanksgiving, meh, she has a tendency to give give give with food, so she’ll at least know it’s appreciated and graciously accepted. We have game nights and she sends me home with all the leftovers. Lmao

Thank you! It’s not the worst thankfully

Sending good vibes.
I totally understand about telling your parents or them finding out.
It took me a while to finally admit to my Mom that I wanted to gain weight and that I had gotten fat by choice.
I had always been really skinny and hated being that way.