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Hey all. It’s been ages since I joined a Feederism site. I first found the Feederism community back in the 90s on AOL Fat and Gaining chat and Dimensions. Those were the Wild West days of feederism ha. I wonder if there are any old timers from those days here

When I first found those sites back then I was just an avg weight guy and would not have called myself a feedee. I would have said I was an FA for sure and I almost exclusively dated big girls.

By the end of the 90s I was in a serious relationship with a Ssbbw model in the community who had a Rolodex of kinks lol. And one of them that was really strong for her was having a submissive parter she could feed. So that’s how the feedee lifestyle started for me. I was with her for nearly seven years and put on a lot of weight, That relationship ended and a couple years later i was with another partner that was also very into the kink. By about 2014 my weight hit the high point of 580 lbs.

I’ve been thinking of telling my story on here but not sure which forum or if it would be appropriate for the story section (is it fiction only?).

Or maybe i could just do an AMA here. Or maybe no one cares to hear about the whole crazy experience of going from some avg FA to a superchub.

My current weight is 480 and my gaining days are over. I just turned 50.

But I still like to discuss the kink even though I don’t partake anymore. So feel free to hit me up.

Nice to meet an alumni. I never joined any fat-related sites until the late 2010's. I was 18 years old when I first stumbled upon Dimensions thanks to Ashblonde's BHM/FFA love stories.

Around my mid-teen years I would fall down the rabbit hole of BHM fat art on Deviantart and that was how I discovered my awakening. I also dated a chubby friend in highschool who was in my special ed class back in elementary.

Yes! The stories feature is a great way capture this. It's not just fiction in there, people write autobiographies all the time, or write stories inspired by real events.

Sounds like a good read!

Please post in the non fiction stories. This would be something I’d read. (And many people would.).
Also I’m in the chat a lot in the evenings and I’d love to hear about your experience if you’re up for it.

The best stories are often those based on actual events :-) I’ve written about mine and my wife’s gaining journey through the years on several threads in the forum section. When the occasion pops up where it’s appropriate to tell it again, I just dig it up and paste it.

PM me if you’ve not read it — it’s all true and real :-)

I'm 51, and remember those beginnings. Before the internet, I thought I was the only one. But I thought I was only an admirer, and stayed thin almost all my life. But when I finally discovered putting on a few pounds, and then a few more, it was like my soul opened up. I'm not THAT big, but happily continuing to eat. 😁 Starting so late, I do have to keep health stuff on the backburner. 😆

oh damn.. I would love to hear more about your story all the physical psychological changes that came with that much weight gain.