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Chubbywifewantadvice:
Coping and pasting my question from reddit.
AITA for thinking my husband was embarrassed by me when we ran into his old girlfriend while at his sister's wedding ?

Fake names. Me (33f) and my husband David (33m) recently attended my SIL's (36f) wedding. My husband and sister-in-law Emma had went to the same high school, and back then David had dated one of Emma's friends, Julia (37f).
During the reception, my husband ran into Julia. She was fit, and very young-looking. I on the other hand had gained a lot of weight. My fit and young-looking husband was very flustered talking to Julia. He told her that she looks "so good" and "so fit." He said she "only got better looking since high school." Julia smiled. When I walked over to them, my husband looked so uncomfortable. There was a weird delay before he introduce me to her.
When he introduced me, his voice was low and he held his head down. I felt fat. Long before, my husband would show me off when he introduced me. Years ago, he would introduced me as "my gorgeous wife" or "my beautiful wife." Now, it was like he was embarrassed.
Back at home, I confronted David. I asked him if he was embarrassed by me because I look fat and old. My husband said he wasn't embarrassed and he said "you're a mom." It feel like an insult because Julia is single and has no kids. It felt he's saying that it's okay that my body is ruined because I had his kids.
Later that night, we almost had sex but he kept getting soft on me. The man who always wakes up hard, and who gets hard if there are certain actresses on TV. I'm not crazing right ? Am I the asshole ?

Munchies:
Why are you talking to us and not your husband?

Chubbywifewantadvice:
Because I try and he does his very best to dance around the conversation.

Munchies:
So you came to a fat fetish website? Do either of you have a fat kink?

Chubbywifewantadvice:
When I saw what this site was after someone on reddit suggested I post it here, I was curious if men here would actually find me actually. Plenty of guys say I sound attractive based on what I said about myself.
One guy I video chatted with wanted to come over to sleep with me.
So basically, I came here to test my desirabilily.
And unlike my husband, I am going to be open with him. I am going to tell him what I did.
He should know that other men desire me. I have options so he better give me attention if he wants me.

Munchies:
So ... you came here to have an affair because you think (but have not confirmed) that your husband is not attracted to you. This is after you mentioned he is usually hard for you all the time, but this one time he's struggling to keep it up.

Yeah ... I call cap.

Chubbywifewantadvice:
Coping and pasting my question from reddit.
AITA for thinking my husband was embarrassed by me when we ran into his old girlfriend while at his sister's wedding ?

Fake names. Me (33f) and my husband David (33m) recently attended my SIL's (36f) wedding. My husband and sister-in-law Emma had went to the same high school, and back then David had dated one of Emma's friends, Julia (37f).
During the reception, my husband ran into Julia. She was fit, and very young-looking. I on the other hand had gained a lot of weight. My fit and young-looking husband was very flustered talking to Julia. He told her that she looks "so good" and "so fit." He said she "only got better looking since high school." Julia smiled. When I walked over to them, my husband looked so uncomfortable. There was a weird delay before he introduce me to her.
When he introduced me, his voice was low and he held his head down. I felt fat. Long before, my husband would show me off when he introduced me. Years ago, he would introduced me as "my gorgeous wife" or "my beautiful wife." Now, it was like he was embarrassed.
Back at home, I confronted David. I asked him if he was embarrassed by me because I look fat and old. My husband said he wasn't embarrassed and he said "you're a mom." It feel like an insult because Julia is single and has no kids. It felt he's saying that it's okay that my body is ruined because I had his kids.
Later that night, we almost had sex but he kept getting soft on me. The man who always wakes up hard, and who gets hard if there are certain actresses on TV. I'm not crazing right ? Am I the asshole ?

Munchies:
Why are you talking to us and not your husband?

Chubbywifewantadvice:
Because I try and he does his very best to dance around the conversation.

Munchies:
So you came to a fat fetish website? Do either of you have a fat kink?

Chubbywifewantadvice:
When I saw what this site was after someone on reddit suggested I post it here, I was curious if men here would actually find me actually. Plenty of guys say I sound attractive based on what I said about myself.
One guy I video chatted with wanted to come over to sleep with me.
So basically, I came here to test my desirabilily.
And unlike my husband, I am going to be open with him. I am going to tell him what I did.
He should know that other men desire me. I have options so he better give me attention if he wants me.

Munchies:
So ... you came here to have an affair because you think (but have not confirmed) that your husband is not attracted to you. This is after you mentioned he is usually hard for you all the time, but this one time he's struggling to keep it up.

Yeah ... I call cap.

Chubbywifewantadvice:
I didn't say he's hard for me all the time, I said he's often hard but not for me.

Chubbywifewantadvice:
Coping and pasting my question from reddit.
AITA for thinking my husband was embarrassed by me when we ran into his old girlfriend while at his sister's wedding ?

Fake names. Me (33f) and my husband David (33m) recently attended my SIL's (36f) wedding. My husband and sister-in-law Emma had went to the same high school, and back then David had dated one of Emma's friends, Julia (37f).
During the reception, my husband ran into Julia. She was fit, and very young-looking. I on the other hand had gained a lot of weight. My fit and young-looking husband was very flustered talking to Julia. He told her that she looks "so good" and "so fit." He said she "only got better looking since high school." Julia smiled. When I walked over to them, my husband looked so uncomfortable. There was a weird delay before he introduce me to her.
When he introduced me, his voice was low and he held his head down. I felt fat. Long before, my husband would show me off when he introduced me. Years ago, he would introduced me as "my gorgeous wife" or "my beautiful wife." Now, it was like he was embarrassed.
Back at home, I confronted David. I asked him if he was embarrassed by me because I look fat and old. My husband said he wasn't embarrassed and he said "you're a mom." It feel like an insult because Julia is single and has no kids. It felt he's saying that it's okay that my body is ruined because I had his kids.
Later that night, we almost had sex but he kept getting soft on me. The man who always wakes up hard, and who gets hard if there are certain actresses on TV. I'm not crazing right ? Am I the asshole ?

Munchies:
Why are you talking to us and not your husband?

Chubbywifewantadvice:
Because I try and he does his very best to dance around the conversation.

Munchies:
So you came to a fat fetish website? Do either of you have a fat kink?

Chubbywifewantadvice:
When I saw what this site was after someone on reddit suggested I post it here, I was curious if men here would actually find me actually. Plenty of guys say I sound attractive based on what I said about myself.
One guy I video chatted with wanted to come over to sleep with me.
So basically, I came here to test my desirabilily.
And unlike my husband, I am going to be open with him. I am going to tell him what I did.
He should know that other men desire me. I have options so he better give me attention if he wants me.

Munchies:
So ... you came here to have an affair because you think (but have not confirmed) that your husband is not attracted to you. This is after you mentioned he is usually hard for you all the time, but this one time he's struggling to keep it up.

Yeah ... I call cap.

Chubbywifewantadvice:
I didn't say he's hard for me all the time, I said he's often hard but not for me.

Munchies:
So you would rather have an affair over marital counseling or divorce.

You're not very smart.

Munchies:
So you would rather have an affair over marital counseling or divorce.

You're not very smart.

Chubbywifewantadvice:
My husband is out of town so I talked to him on video chat.

I confessed to him something I did today that I'm ashamed of. I went to a different site and talked to men who like bigger women. One of those guys, because he said he lives in my city, I video chatted with him. A good-looking, younger guy. This guy wanted to hook up with me. Me and my daughters are sick with the flu, and I considered hooking up with this stranger from the internet. I actually considered for a minute about doing something that could cause me to end up being the topic of a true crime documentary.

My husband said he loves me, and he swears on our daughters that he never had an affair. But he finally admitted that he is not as attracted to me as when we first got together. He also finally admitted that he was embarrassed to introduce me to his ex. He said he knows it's stupid and shallow, but he wanted to impress his old girlfriend. He said that when he comes home tomorrow, he'll do everything in his power to fix our relationship. I promised him that I will also try to fix our relationship.

I Am Uo:
Interesting tale! Feels like there’s a hint of fish in the air... 🐟"