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The market is so saturated with female feedee content. There’s so little female feeder/male feedee and it’s scattered across the internet freakin sucks. Stories is the best we get

grommr

Grommr is more for gay men. (As I understand it, there aren't any women on Grommr except for trans women.) So if that's your thing, then more power to you. But if you are into women or are a woman, you are SOL.

Agreed, there's little space for anything else anywhere you look, whether it's plain FA or Female feeder/male feedee dynamic, etc, it's drowned out by the sheer amount of the content you speak of.

On the site thing, who'd want to take up that task despite all of the stigma on this community? Maybe if someone starts an open-source site, but otherwise I doubt it...

P. S Isn't WooPlus a thing? (just remembered it but isn't available in my country)

I don't think anything really properly compares to FF these days. It's pretty remarkable really, since it's the third online web site in the feederism space I'm aware of, and the second oldest one that's still around.

It's also the only one I can think of that has managed to strike a good balance with fostering a friendly, open community largely free of toxicity and has kept that up for more than 20 years.

A lot have come and go, either fizzling into nothing or turning monstrous or toxic. For the sake of brevity I'm not talking about the ones that are defunct.

FatCelebs/Curvage - It started off as a borderline creepy voyeuristic message board, albeit minus the nudity. Some members would even go around and take pictures of random people. Legally, if you go out in public you don't have the right not to be photographed or recorded, but this still rubbed me the wrong way somehow. Lot of creepy comments though. On one occasion, I think I remember one of the subjects even got doxxed, at which point it turned into danger, and from what I recall that information was up for too long.

Eventually, it devolved into a discount/knockoff version of OnlyFans and ManyVids and has been a simpfest ever since. I haven't checked it out since, since before COVID at least. Whatever it is, it's NOT a place where you can really hope to make any actual, genuine connections, friends or romance.

Grommr - A subsidiary of Grokio, LLC, it's focused pretty much entirely on the gay side of feederism. They do have a competent technical team behind it, but I can't speak to the quality of the community as I've never been.

Feabie - Created by the same team as Grommr as another subsidiary of Grokio, LLC, they have the same solid technical team. However, community development leaves a lot to be desired. I never really interacted on there much, but reports say it's full of toxicity and is very cliquish. Yeah, I don't have any time for that. I haven't checked it out in years either, it's probably worse now, if anything. My recommendation is to give it a pass.

AOL and Yahoo Groups are long gone. Maybe if you get lucky on Reddit? Most boards on Reddit are simpfests and shitshows though, so you'd have to dig through a LOT of crap, but you might find the occasional diamond in the rough.

WooPlus is another simpfest and a complete waste of time, the way most niche dating sites/apps are. I checked it out for maybe a couple weeks, but I'll probably just delete it.

Niche dating sites all suffer from the same problem of network effect too. There's never enough users, so why even bother to stick around? Why pay when no one on there is active anyway?

If you want to go through the online route for a possible relationship, it's best to stick with the largest, most mainstream services you can, because they actually have users who are active.

i am biased, because i met my current partner on wooplus. but it's not a social media platform - it's a dating app. yes, it has all the flaws that all of the other dating apps have, so your mileage will vary (heavily!) depending on how you interact with these things. i am surprised as anyone that it worked for me, lol.

Feabie